My plan about my future bisexual life.

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I’m a bisexual lives in a small town. 22 years old and nothing special. I don’t want to come out. My life is perfect now. I am working in a flower market. My boss is a very kind old man. Also I read a lot of news about bisexual. I have ever searched many articles about bisexual.

Although my life is clam, I’m a young man. Just the same as other youth, I like hip-pop, I like extreme sports, also I like beautiful girl. One more, I like handsome boy too. I never told anyone that I am bisexual. Even my parents and my best friends don’t know it. It’s a secret belong to me. There are several gay groups in our small town and the neighbor towns. I never join the party of them. It’s nothing about the sexual orientation. As I know, many straight guys ever joined the party several times. I heard that they have threesome date sometimes. I swear I really want to join them. But there are many works to do every day. I’m too tired to go out the room, let alone join a party.

I have a plan, I joined a bisexual date site at 19 years old. I meet a bisexual girl there. We are the same age. And she lives 50 miles away. Every week I would try to meet her. She is very beautiful. When I save enough money to buy the ring, I will make her a proposal. My dream will come true soon.

We had discussed our future life. At first, we don’t prepare to have a baby before 30. And then we will enjoy our real bisexual life. We would like to join different kinds of date. Seeking a gay/bisexual/lesbian to join us. It seems very exciting. If we looking for a good men or women, we will live together. If the mind cannot come true, we will have several babies and enjoy happiness life. When we are old lay on the chairs together and recall our young age.

The first Lesbian I met at 18 years old.

I’m a bisexual boy, but I never told anyone else. Until I graduated from senior high school, no one knows my secret. I’m very diffidence and have few friends. So, I have no girlfriend in past years.

I have a plan to my future. To be the “S-Bisexual”, it means “straight-bisexual”. I will not come out in the future. I may have a girlfriend after graduating from university. Then we will get married and have several babies. I think I can be loyal to my partner.

But everything have changed at the second weeks of the vacation. All my friends (in fact only two) invite me to join a party. It is said only under 20 year old youth could join. The address is the park at the east of our small town. I can drive there in 20 minutes. Maybe I should release myself at this time, I think so. And I promised my friends I will arrived there on time.

It’s really a big party. Almost 40 guys there when I arrived. I am familiar with half of them. Because they are my schoolmate. I greet them and look around the same time. A girl catch my attention. She is about 5’7’’. Really a hot girl and she is looking at me that time. Suddenly my heart beat very fast, “I must date with her” the thought filled up my mind. The party will last to tomorrow morning, I have many chances to talk to her.

Time: 1:15 AM.
Place: at some corner of the park.
Finally, I kiss her lips. “I’m a lesbian” she said. “I’m….” I want to respond some words, but I cannot say a word. I just look at her, I know she must have something to say. “I have a girlfriend, she is not a lesbian but a bisexual. She said that love you for a long time. I don’t want lose her, so I want to try if I could date with you. Do you want a threesome?” Her words is just like a bomb explode in my mind. At the moment I know our story are just begin.

As a bisexual/gay/lesbian, do you enthusiasm overmuch sometimes?

If you meet a bisexual/gay/lesbian luckily and he/she is very enthusiasm, please don’t lie to him/her. Because they didn’t get hurt from the world before. I think you would not like to be the first one to hurt them. The reason why I make the conclusion is less people could keep enthusiasm to others, if he/she ever have been hurt. Do you agree with me?

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LGBT happened to be the groups are easier get hurt. Why? Please listen to me.

If you ever have met bisexual/gay/lesbian, you may know the plight of LGBT groups more or less. Obviously, it couldn’t be very good. I’m thinking about why so many people said that bisexual are promiscuous. The viewpoint must be wrong even if without proving. We couldn’t depend on few rumors to judge a group is good or not. We have given LGBT groups lots of hurt, please stop hurting them by your words.

Gay and lesbian usually loyal to a relationship. They just like lonely cheetah walking in boundless prairie. Waiting for partner appears at any moment. You may want to contradict me that there are many gay and lesbian communities for gay and lesbian to meet a relationship. But how do you know what they encountered is not an accident. True love is the most mysterious thing in the world. Few lucky guys can get it. Every times when you meet a stranger is a chance to get true love. How do you control yourself don’t chase it? This is the reason why gay/lesbian all most enthusiasm to every relationship.

Omg, my sister is lesbian!!!

Have you ever thought that you or your family members are bisexual, gay? My answer is no, I didn’t think about this. But it was happened in my life. My sister is lesbian.

I’m straight, but I don’t reject bisexual or gay/lesbian at all. I knew she is lesbian since 3 years ago. I love my sister very much and I want she can have a happiness life. But if she is a lesbian, it becomes harder.

At first, our parents could hardly to accept it. They all love her very much. Our parents don’t expect my sister have a rich life but just want she lives as a normal girl. But things go contrary to their wishes. She is born to special. We find it out years later. It do not affect that my sister become an excellent daughter. She love our parents very much and very optimistic. She always said to me “it’s nothing to be a lesbian”.

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I saw her “girlfriends” several times. They are all nice girl, beautiful and smart. I am willing to stay with them. My sister call their love “Platonic Love”. She have a clear plan to her future. At first, graduate from university. Second, looking for a job to make some money. Third, live with her “girlfriends”. It sound very easy, does it?

My sister is lucky, because she meet few “girlfriends” at school. It saves her a lot of time to looking for another lesbian. They are coming from different places. They get together because they have the same dreams. I knew LGBT groups from my sister and I searched much information on internet. So I knew the situation of LGBT groups very much even if I’m not belong to LGBT. Many youths too impatient to wait to come out as bisexual or gay/lesbian. Because it sound very cool, I think so. Most of them could be called “Bi-curious, Gay/Lesbian-curious” my sister said. It’s doesn’t difficult to resolution it. They can hardly to keeps a relationship for a long time. Generally, they will finish a relationship in 1-3 months. It make people feel that bisexual, lesbian/gay are disloyal to a relationship.

There are a lot of lesbian/gay, bisexual people like my sister in the world. I don’t know how does my parents will deal with the problem? It is hardly to think about. But there is a rule between families; that is “Love can defeat anything”.

Do you want have fun with bisexuals?

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Bisexuality is really an amazing group in the world. I am not mean that bisexual orientation is good or not. I mean every bisexuality is a hero in their life. You will never think about that how many troubles they faced in the process of come out. But what they gain in the end? May be like the words in the song “Just something I can turn to, somebody I can kiss, I want something just like this”. You are not super hero, but you can be a hero to save yourselves life.

Do you remember the day you find out you have a gift from god? You can love both male and female, just like an angel. Yes, it’s cool. Do you scared, exciting, happy at that moment? Different people have different emotions. But I think one of your common point is try to looking for another bisexual. In the world, no one want be lonely. Did you success?

Someone may laugh at you; some people will cheating on you. You even doubt that whether it’s wrong to show your sexual orientation to others. You have no need to do that. You could live a normal life as a straight. Just need to hide something from your soul. Yes, you did it. But still feel regret when you see the news about stars’ coming out on TV. You could have live a different life.

Many people are spreading how bisexuality terrible is. Only you knows that their act is a joke. Losers always try to prove their right through belittle others. How could a person be monster if without hurt anybody, make troubles to others and cheat on anybody? If bisexuality is born to be monster, let’s make earth to be our paradise. Welcome to our monster group bisexualfun.net and looking for your partner.

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Every time you think that others could accept you. Finally, you only success few times. Why we don’t go to a place everyone could accept you and your sexual orientation? Thousands years ago the word “Freedom” is taboo. Just like the situation of bisexual and gay. You want a gay or bisexuality’s relationship but you afraid to talk about it. You don’t want your life been destroyed. But the desire been repression could be stronger. May be you need to have fun with bisexual or gay to release yourself.

Whether gay can date with bisexual or straight?

As we know heterosexual only date with heterosexual is as a general rule. Gay’s date rule is as same as straight, and they could only date with gay. Do you agree with this view?

If there is a general rule, there usually have some special rules. Many straights are interested in gay’s date. But it doesn’t means they are bisexual. It’s a kind of curious just like bi-curious. They want to join a gay’s date or bisexual’s date, 3some date. Some research studies show that many heterosexuals would like to date with same sex sometimes. For these heterosexuals, it’s really a difference sexual experience.

Why gays are willing to date with heterosexuals? They have no experience of gay’s date. They even don’t know what to do while join the date. However it is precisely that the reason why they can attract gay is they have no experience. No experience means curious, interesting, so that both sides could feel that they find a new land. They could bring exciting feeling to each other. If you are bored to the normal life and want have a date with gay or lesbian, you can try it. But you’d better know what you’ll never do.

Bisexual is an amazing sexual orientation. The characters of bisexual make it have many kind of choices. But bisexual also have sexual tendency. In fact everyone sexual orientation is flowed. One side is male and another side is female. Bisexual’s sexual orientation close to the middle point. In most cases bisexual will choose a sexual orientation and have a relationship. They may be gay, lesbian or heterosexual in this situation. So that bisexual is more likely to date with straight people. A few bisexuals couldn’t identify their sexual orientation clear, or just like this feeling that can love both male and female. Because in their eyes, male and female are one kind of sexual orientation.

Does it possible that three sexual orientation people could date together? Of cause, yes! A bisexual could date with straight or gay. If you would like to have a threesome date, you may experience a three sexual orientation date. But be careful of whom you will date with. And make sure you can protect yourself.

Why do many bisexual & gay relationship couldn’t last a long time? (Part Two)

At last article, we discussed that why so many bisexual & gay relationship couldn’t last a long time? Does it make you despair? Do we have no solution?

The situation looks like desperate. It seems that any bisexual & gay relationship will turn to insipid, baldness, tasteless as time goes on. However, we could take the initiative to make the relationship have interesting.

Come out of the “comfort zone” of the relationship at first.
Many couples turn the love to some kind of habit in a relationship. There are many fixed things in daily life. Watch movie at weekend, have a good dinner on day of commemoration. The restaurant is fixed. The line is fixed. Even the way of kiss, hug are fixed model. Every time you repetitive the same things day in and day out. Do you think it’s a stable life? The stable life may destroy the surprise and accident. At the same time it destroy the fun of life.

Try to appeal to your partner every day.
When you live together for a long time, have not make trouble to your partner is a grace for him/her. Do you once have the thought? You should know that you can live together as gay or bisexual couple is really an amazing thing. So don’t try to destroy anything. Try to build good relationship. A cup of tea, a carefully prepare dinner is very simple thing but make your partner feel been loved. The more you do to your partner you will get more happiness I think.

Improve your “sex attraction” to your gay & bisexual partner.
Everyone have “sexual desire”. This is the basic requirement of a human. But the “sexual desire” is keeping reduce as time pass by. It’s important for gay & bisexual couples to think that how to keep your “sex attraction” to your partner. Keep a good image always a good idea. Love isn’t continual; it’s make up with countless “heart beat fast” moment and daily chores. The reason way many gay & bisexual couple feel bored to the relationship is that they could only feel the daily chores. But cannot feel the “heart beat fast” moment. This is what the love really need.

No matter you are single or in a relationship. I think your life need some “heart bet fast” moment. Try to find the one who can give you this feeling. Want have some fun with bisexual, want have a relationship with gay, want find a gay & bisexual to chat with; come to onlybidating.com is a good idea.

Why do many bisexuals & gays relationship couldn’t last a long time?

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At the start we meet someone bisexual or gay there seems to be many topics to talking about. It’s not enough to talk with each other three days and nights. He/she is like a magic hat, you always get surprise when you put your hands in it. As time goes on, you are familiar with each other, there is no unknown part to explore. The fresh feeling keep reducing with the time pass by. Both of you can say nothing more. Even stay at a room you will do the things independently of each other.

Why life become so bored when you live with each other for long time?
How many parts does vapidity between partners could be split to? The so-called bored could be split to three parts.
The first part is the speed of life style change slowly. What the bisexual & gay partner could attract you at the beginning are their special thought, life style, talk and so on. When two independent gays and bisexual get together; they could feel that their worlds are both extend. You could experience the life, thought of your partner. But when you know each other enough. You will find that you can hardly attract to each other.

The second part is reduced of the satisfaction. Every relationship (e.g. love, friendship, affection between family members) exist the reward and cost. We always try to pay out little to get most value relationship. The rewards include the emotional and material. The emotional reward could be the feeling of happiness and romance. Matter reward could be any gift your partner send to you. And the cost is the emotion and matter you have pay out. When you couldn’t satisfy the expectation of each other, the relationship may break.

The third part is reduced passion. Try to recall the memory of your first date with a gay or bisexual. Now, try to look at him/her. Does the feeling have changed?

If you want hold on your partner, there will be an article to teach you what you can do. If you want have a new relationship, I think the gay & bisexual date site could give you a great help.

Be a LGBT dancer who dancing in a storm.

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I love you, but there is a world between us.
I’m gay but you are straight.
I cannot own you in this life.
But you have owned my heart.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I’m bisexual but you are straight.
I love you, but you don’t trust me.
At the moment I choose you, you have been my everything.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I’m lesbian but you are straight.
You said that you want a broad chest, but I only have emaciated shoulder.
The day when you leaved, I cried at home.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I cannot tell you I’m transgender.
I don’t want you look down upon me.
It’s enough for me could see you every day.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
There are someone build the world but not you and me.
I want to break out the world.
But I don’t have enough ability.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I want to cross it.
But I cannot.
They said heterosexual identify is the traffic permit.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I took heart of grace came out.
I wish you can understand me.
But I heared the word “stupid”.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I meet someone at a LGBT date site.
He/she have same situation with me.
A storm is approaching, there have no place for us to elude.

We take hands of each other.
So that we will not wander off in the storm.
Let’s dance, he/she said.
We begin to move our feet.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
The world named “discriminate and prejudice”.
It’s too strong to defeat it.
But if we have a strong heart, the storm could be a background of our stage.
Let’s dance for all LGBT, in the storm that the world give us.

As a gay or bisexual have you been turned down?

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Have you ever showed your love to somebody or you never showed you love to anyone? Because you are afraid to failure. Do you think that as a “loser” you even shouldn’t exist? Have you ever been treated as air? Let’s change the question. Which one you prefer been treated as air or stranger?

Everyone will experience some failures. These kind of failures make us very sensitive to the things and people around us. We could notice every tiny act of others. There are so many broken wings of angels. How can we save the angels or ourselves?

Sometimes a little feedback could cure all the harm.
If someone crash on you but you doesn’t like her/him, tell them directly. Don’t treat them as air. At least, they could keep the self-esteem. Some gays or bisexuals may face the problem many times. No matter you are gay, bisexual or heterosexual, you may be excellent or normal. As an excellent gay or bisexual you may be loved by some heterosexuals. So they fall in love with you. How to refuse them but don’t hurt them is an important things. We call it kindness feedback.

Because when you fall in love with somebody, you will face the same situation. It’s difficult for a gay & bisexual to come out. Find a good gay & bisexual partner is also difficult. No one could promise that you will success. Have you ever been turned down? What’s your mind at that moment?

The LGBT’s life is very hard. Doesn’t mean they have a poor life quality. Opposite, most of them have a happiness life. But how to seek a satisfied partner is really hard. We can turn down others and could be turned down too. The more kindnesses we give to others the more courage we will get to looking for love.