Living in the big city, a good job can give you a predominant life. There are milk and bread for breakfast, hamburger and coffee for lunch, steak and red wine for dinner. Living in a big house with soft sofa and lenient bed. Maybe one more little private swimming pool. At least, you don’t have to worry about the food. So, is it enough for you? You live a dream life of others. But according to the (A Theory of Human Motivation Psychological Review) Wrote by Abraham H. Maslow I want say that you are living a basic level life.
What’s the next level you should reach? Of cause is love and family.
We can only live for decades. We study, work and fall in love with someone secretly in the past years. Only 30 or 40 years left for us. But, are you still single now? Yes, there are many problems bothered us. Because of these reasons, you feel bored, you cannot sleep. You need someone to talk with you. Or you decide to shirk all of those problems. Travel alone, do everything yourself. Then you feel that you obtain the perfect life and don’t need anyone. Until someday you feel lonely, you try to looking for the life before. But nothing is left. Try to think about that you meet an old friend on the street someday, he/she have a nice wife/husband and they are holding a child. What is your feeling in the moment? I don’t know. I know you definitely do not want to try this feeling.
In fact you need have some to love. At the same time you need someone to love you. We don’t need to show happiness to others. What we want is to be no longer bothered and lonely. This is a basic requirement for every people living in the social. No matter you are straight, bisexual, gay. One day you living in the world, you should communicate with others. You should be loved and love others. The time you finished this you become a better people.