This is a question for bisexual? If you are bisexual, you can ask yourself. I think different people must have different idea.
I think many bisexuals have tried to married with straight. Few bisexuals have the courage to married with gay or build a threesome family. We live on the earth. The living environment is very important for us. Not only the physics environment, but also the emotion environment. I have to say that sometimes we have to compromise.
Maybe you are freedom fighter, you will fighter for free love. I just want to say, I’m not. I’m prefer to be a guardian. Guard what? My family, friends and the people I love. So, you will have the question, who can heart them? No body except me. Beyond doubt, my family and friends are loving me without additional conditions. The reason why I talk about that I want to be a guardian is that I also love them too. As everyone knows, both gay and bisexual can hardly been accepted by straight. There are so much reasons. We don’t talk about it in this article. We only talk about the result be caused by the fact.
If you are single bisexual & gay and you can also ignore the sight of others, you can chase the dream of build a bisexual and gay family. In fact, many bisexual and gay choose to do this. Then adopt a child. But there are no researches show that the child will not be affected by their gay & bisexual parents. At least, this action is one kind of test. Within the sphere permitted by law I think it is worth to have a try.
But if you not single and you have a very happiness family, it’s really difficult for you to come out. There are huge pressure from family and social. Few lucky guys could get the support of family. There are two choices for left gay & bisexual. The one is come out in spite of everything. Another way is hide their identities. But lies always been find out someday. The truth is very cruel. But I refuse to accept it.
I couldn’t live a compromise life. I’m not a free fighter, also don’t yield to the social pressure. I understand who I am. I want the serious relationship with a bisexual or gay. I have date with many people on the bisexual date site. We live in the same city. But we have independent living. I don’t need to come out. Have no necessary to fight with anyone. What I should do is focus on the people who want date with me. I think this is the best life to me.