Have you ever showed your love to somebody or you never showed you love to anyone? Because you are afraid to failure. Do you think that as a “loser” you even shouldn’t exist? Have you ever been treated as air? Let’s change the question. Which one you prefer been treated as air or stranger?
Everyone will experience some failures. These kind of failures make us very sensitive to the things and people around us. We could notice every tiny act of others. There are so many broken wings of angels. How can we save the angels or ourselves?
Sometimes a little feedback could cure all the harm.
If someone crash on you but you doesn’t like her/him, tell them directly. Don’t treat them as air. At least, they could keep the self-esteem. Some gays or bisexuals may face the problem many times. No matter you are gay, bisexual or heterosexual, you may be excellent or normal. As an excellent gay or bisexual you may be loved by some heterosexuals. So they fall in love with you. How to refuse them but don’t hurt them is an important things. We call it kindness feedback.
Because when you fall in love with somebody, you will face the same situation. It’s difficult for a gay & bisexual to come out. Find a good gay & bisexual partner is also difficult. No one could promise that you will success. Have you ever been turned down? What’s your mind at that moment?
The LGBT’s life is very hard. Doesn’t mean they have a poor life quality. Opposite, most of them have a happiness life. But how to seek a satisfied partner is really hard. We can turn down others and could be turned down too. The more kindnesses we give to others the more courage we will get to looking for love.