Human’s nature is exploring. Exploring the unknown area and ourselves. I have a question since the day I identified as bisexual. How many bisexual lives in the world. I know nobody could give me the detailed figures. Because nobody could finish the statistical work, it is beyond work itself.
Depend on the definition of human’s gender, we can easy to differentiate LGTS people. But bisexual people is the hardest to differentiate. Why? Because themselves are confused sometime. This is the reason that bisexual’s self-identify is usually late than gay & les. If you are attracted by a cute girl and you sure that the feeling is real, what should you do? At the same time, you are attracted by a handsome boy and you also sure that the feeling is real, what should you do?
Heterosexual often meet the first situation. And it’s often comes out in the beginning of a film. Almost all love story begin with a moment that a female/male attract by another female/male. If the roles are male, it’s a gay film. If the roles are female, it’s a lesbian film. If the roles have both female and male, it’s a heterosexual film. It could not accurate, it may be a bisexual film too. But bisexual feature film is really infrequent. Because it really hard to control. Let’s talk about the reason below.
Bisexual of meet the second situation. You will confused the problem. If you choose the girl, it’s just a heterosexual love story. If you choose the boy, it’s just a gay love story. But if you choose both of them, I don’t know whether they can accept you. What I can sure is the social will reject your relationship. In human’s history, the loyal love is a very important rule. It’s a moral base line to everyone. Who go against it is challenge the rule. But bisexual is seems born to go against the rule. Many bisexuals are choose to observe the rule. So that bisexual could hardly been acknowledge by social. Therefore, bisexual was labelled many tags. This sexual orientation was rejected by many people (include bisexual) automatically. Bisexual choose to live as gay or heterosexuality.
In addition to this, out of fresh or trend many youth come out as bisexual. They may just for fun or looking for an exciting date. But it hurt someone who want find a serious relationship. Two people’s world are very complicated, much less three people’s world. The people have a bisexual marriage is very lucky. Not all bisexual want a bisexual marriage. A simple and normal life is enough for most people. And they are not willing to show their bisexual identify. We will never know how many bisexual in the world. So, let it become a secret. Anyway, a happiness life is most important.