If you are lucky to be a bisexual fish, don’t worry about it. There are some tips from others’ experience, and those tips could help you to blend in bisexual group faster. If you are lucky to be a bisexual fish, don’t worry about it. There are some tips from others’ experience, and those tips could help you to blend in bisexual group faster.
Bisexuality is different with other sexual orientation people. Bisexuality is harder to identify than gay and lesbian. Based on the flow of the sexual, bisexual people have a multidirectional choices. These choices could confuse bisexual people. But don’t worry about it. Every Bi people has experienced it. They have some tips for the bisexual fish.
1. Don’t be restrained by your identify. Sexual orientation is flowing. It could change in the future. The bisexual label will not follow you forever. At first, you should know that you are bisexual at present. There are some women who identify as lesbian even though they date men. The function of label is that it could help you find the right community. So that the label is not permanent even if it is daunting. Don’t treat the label as an invariable faith.
2. Bisexual community grow up fast. You even don’t know “bisexual” when you are in senior high school. You may not meet any bisexual in college. But after graduation you can met so many gay, lesbian, bisexual. Bisexual is everywhere. You just don’t know it. Because gay, lesbian and straight are obviously. Anyone may indeed be bisexual. If you can join a bisexual community, you will know it clearly.
3. Whether to coming out.This is not only care about bisexuality. Gay and lesbian also face the same question. It’s harmful to anyone that suppress themselves for a long time. You may know who is really love you when you come out. The people who don’t care about you may reject you without hesitation. The people who treat you as acquaintance will alienation you. The people who really love you will always give you warm hug anytime and anywhere. So what is your choice?