Simon isn’t gay, but he spend hours every day to worry about whether he is gay.
Since he worry about he is gay, he will avoid to get in touch with other male when he is working. He even won’t stay with another male alone. He avoid to join sports activities with his son. So that he will not get in touch with son’s coaches and other daddies.
Simon suffers from HOCD (Compulsive sexual orientation). People who suffers from HOCD is afraid to be gay or treated as gay. Sometimes this illness is confused with Homophobia. In this condition, someone is actually gay, lesbian or bisexual, but their sexual orientation make them worrying. The people who suffers from HOCD will always obsessive themselves to understand they are not gay. In fact, they are not gay indeed.
Should you be afraid to be gay? Of cause not. If you are gay identified, don’t worry about it. It’s not a terrible thing. Many gays live a happiness life. Gay’s live environment has a big improved with time goes on. More and more people is willing to accept gay, lesbian and bisexual and support them. There are many bisexual, gay and lesbian communities were built.
You don’t have to date with gay to identify yourself. If you doubt that you are gay, you can try to find out which gender can attract you. The male or female. It’s the easiest way. Please don’t date with gay by using bisexual tag. It may heart your partner. Cheat is unforgiven in a serious relationship. It is ok, if both you just want have some fun.