Don’t sell yourself short – Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian!

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Every time I heard people talk about Bisexuality, Gay, Lesbian and the main keywords are “Suicide”, ”Self-imposed isolation”, “Self-abasement”, “Unhappy”. It is make me very sad. Every time I heard people talk about Bisexuality, Gay, Lesbian and the main keywords are “Suicide”, ”Self-imposed isolation”, “Self-abasement”, “Unhappy”. It is make me very sad.
I have heard many Gay, Bisexual, Lesbian talk about their experience. They always like to begin with this sentence “At first, I feel very terrible, and I stay and home for X months. I even try to suicide…” It seems to be a tradition that every Bisexuality, Gay, Lesbian must have a sad past. But does it actually right?
At first, we should learn that why so many people think that to be a LGBT is an unhappy thing? For the moment, LGBT people have an embarrassing status in social. On the one hand government have past the laws that LGBT’s marriage is legal, but on the other hand a part of people cannot accept this reality psychologically within a short time. As a result LGBT were suffered varying degrees of discrimination and reject.
This is true, we cannot escape it. But this is one side of current situation. We cannot cover our eyes with our hands in by day and say it is night. In fact, many communities and groups are helping Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian fish to identify themselves and enjoy the colorful life. All the confusions are always temporary. As a bisexual, gay, lesbian fish what you should do at first isn’t coming out, but learn about the current status of the groups.
When you have learned about LGBT you will know that it’s not terrible to be a bisexual, gay, lesbian.

1. You are not alone. There are many LGBT people around the world.

2. It’s a normal thing. Don’t feel pressured. Everyone should come out in their own time. Whether to coming out depend on if you are ready.

3. Label yourself is not necessary. Love depend on the feeling but not the same label.

4. Learn about how other bisexual, gay, lesbian come out is very helpful. Try your best to avoid some unnecessary trouble.

5. Tell someone. Whether you prepare to coming out, it is good idea to relieve the pressure. Relaxed brain could help you make right decisions.
It’s like accepting that the earth is round. Someday people will accept bisexual, gay, lesbian. What we need to do is life a happy life. Looking for bisexual fun, have a gay relationship, date with a lesbian; do anything you want when you are ready. The worst decision is hiding yourself and tasting the sadness.

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Some tips for bisexual fish.

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If you are lucky to be a bisexual fish, don’t worry about it. There are some tips from others’ experience, and those tips could help you to blend in bisexual group faster. If you are lucky to be a bisexual fish, don’t worry about it. There are some tips from others’ experience, and those tips could help you to blend in bisexual group faster.
Bisexuality is different with other sexual orientation people. Bisexuality is harder to identify than gay and lesbian. Based on the flow of the sexual, bisexual people have a multidirectional choices. These choices could confuse bisexual people. But don’t worry about it. Every Bi people has experienced it. They have some tips for the bisexual fish.
1. Don’t be restrained by your identify. Sexual orientation is flowing. It could change in the future. The bisexual label will not follow you forever. At first, you should know that you are bisexual at present. There are some women who identify as lesbian even though they date men. The function of label is that it could help you find the right community. So that the label is not permanent even if it is daunting. Don’t treat the label as an invariable faith.
2. Bisexual community grow up fast. You even don’t know “bisexual” when you are in senior high school. You may not meet any bisexual in college. But after graduation you can met so many gay, lesbian, bisexual. Bisexual is everywhere. You just don’t know it. Because gay, lesbian and straight are obviously. Anyone may indeed be bisexual. If you can join a bisexual community, you will know it clearly.
3. Whether to coming out.This is not only care about bisexuality. Gay and lesbian also face the same question. It’s harmful to anyone that suppress themselves for a long time. You may know who is really love you when you come out. The people who don’t care about you may reject you without hesitation. The people who treat you as acquaintance will alienation you. The people who really love you will always give you warm hug anytime and anywhere. So what is your choice?

I want date with a lesbian girl.

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I know that there are many lesbians in the world. But I just saw them on TV or movies, I never date with a lesbian in my life. I’m very curious about lesbian. I cannot enter lesbian bar or party, since I’m a man, a bisexual man.

I don’t meet any difficulty while identify my sexual orientation. I realized that I’m a bisexual when I was 16 years old. I read many articles about LGBT groups because I’m interested in LGBT. I heard the word “Platonic Love” at 15 years old. I am very yearn for the “Platonic Love”. I think I can find the other half of myself in the world. I tried it when I was 17 years old. I have a relationship with a boy. He is gay, I’m bisexual. But I just want love, and what he want is having sex. We break up 3 months later.

I’m a normal bisexual man. I don’t reject to have sex. I also enjoy sex. I just don’t think that there is only sex within a relationship. Then I keep single for a long time. I looking for some bisexual fun between 17 and 20 years old. But I don’t begin any relationship and just have fun with other friends. I joined some gay and bisexual parties. I tried to have sex with boy and girl. And have several real threesome dates.

I feel void and lonely when I’m alone. I want there is someone could have breakfast with me. I want share my happiness to who I love but not only my friends. I try to chat with some strangers on Facebook, Google and other chat community. But you know, it just mess me up. It’s only waste my time.

I was dated with gay and girl. But I was not dated with a lesbian. I cannot imagine it. You could make friend with a lesbian girl. But have date with lesbian is something else. Just like straight date with a gay. That sounds ridiculous. I want explore the special fun with lesbian, but it just a dream. Does anyone else ever tried it? I think it must be an amazing date.

Now I’m 27 years old. I’m still seeking a date with lesbian. Even if I was refused many times. Maybe it is because of its impossible make me so fascinated.

Brown’s bisexual doctor boyfriend.

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Brown is a sport boy. He often join some extreme sports party. But many his friends don’t know that he is actually a gay. He never told to anyone. He doesn’t afraid of others know that. He just don’t want let friends know he is gay before looking for true love.

But unluckily he get a very serious injury while join an extreme sport. He was riding his bicycle through the forest very fast and an accident happened. He tripped and lose two tooth, fracture of lower leg. Fortunately, he could regain his health by taking months rest and nourishment. Obviously, he couldn’t join the extreme sport in the next months. He have to stay at home and accept the treat.

His doctor is a very famous doctor named John. But people call him gay John in private. Of cause he is not a gay. Opposite, he has a very beautiful wife. They love each other very much.

Brown meet John at home on a sunny afternoon. They discussed the state of Brown’s illness. And John told Brown his therapeutic schedule. They reached a preliminary agreement in the afternoon. Brown was satisfied with John’s suggestion and asked John have diner together.

They talked a lot when have diner. They talked like old friends. “I heard that they call you gay John, can you tell me your story?” Brown asked.

“Haha, you have heard of that. In fact, I’m a bi. And I ever have a boyfriend in high school. Almost everyone know that.” John said. “I’m sorry to hear that, I come here since 5 years ago and I don’t know your story and I’m gay too.” Brown responded. They looked at each other after Brown’s words. Finally, Brown kissed John. John seemed to want to avoid it. But he didn’t.

After that, they become the best “friends”. Brown fully recovered after six months.

How many people are sheer bisexual?

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Human’s nature is exploring. Exploring the unknown area and ourselves. I have a question since the day I identified as bisexual. How many bisexual lives in the world. I know nobody could give me the detailed figures. Because nobody could finish the statistical work, it is beyond work itself.

Depend on the definition of human’s gender, we can easy to differentiate LGTS people. But bisexual people is the hardest to differentiate. Why? Because themselves are confused sometime. This is the reason that bisexual’s self-identify is usually late than gay & les. If you are attracted by a cute girl and you sure that the feeling is real, what should you do? At the same time, you are attracted by a handsome boy and you also sure that the feeling is real, what should you do?

Heterosexual often meet the first situation. And it’s often comes out in the beginning of a film. Almost all love story begin with a moment that a female/male attract by another female/male. If the roles are male, it’s a gay film. If the roles are female, it’s a lesbian film. If the roles have both female and male, it’s a heterosexual film. It could not accurate, it may be a bisexual film too. But bisexual feature film is really infrequent. Because it really hard to control. Let’s talk about the reason below.

Bisexual of meet the second situation. You will confused the problem. If you choose the girl, it’s just a heterosexual love story. If you choose the boy, it’s just a gay love story. But if you choose both of them, I don’t know whether they can accept you. What I can sure is the social will reject your relationship. In human’s history, the loyal love is a very important rule. It’s a moral base line to everyone. Who go against it is challenge the rule. But bisexual is seems born to go against the rule. Many bisexuals are choose to observe the rule. So that bisexual could hardly been acknowledge by social. Therefore, bisexual was labelled many tags. This sexual orientation was rejected by many people (include bisexual) automatically. Bisexual choose to live as gay or heterosexuality.

In addition to this, out of fresh or trend many youth come out as bisexual. They may just for fun or looking for an exciting date. But it hurt someone who want find a serious relationship. Two people’s world are very complicated, much less three people’s world. The people have a bisexual marriage is very lucky. Not all bisexual want a bisexual marriage. A simple and normal life is enough for most people. And they are not willing to show their bisexual identify. We will never know how many bisexual in the world. So, let it become a secret. Anyway, a happiness life is most important.

My Rich Bisexual Girlfriend

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I never thought that I will have such a bisexual girlfriend.

Her name is Angela. My name is Bam. I’m about 5’9’’. I like play basketball, and the first time I met her is at a public basketball court. She has wheat skin, long hair and very beautiful. That day, I’m playing basketball with my fellows. She came over and said that she want join us. We all laugh at her at first but we realize this is a mistake. She beaten all of us after half an hour.

After that, we know each other. In our eyes, she is actually a lesbian. Because there is another beautiful girl follow her every moment. They looks like very intimacy. Sometimes they kiss in front of us. Oh, come on I really want become that girl.

She disappeared for 3 months after we built friend relationship. Nobody know what she worked for that period of time. But everything changed when she appear again. The same wheat skin but hair had cut. I have to say, it make her more charming.

“Be my boyfriend” this is the first dialogue she talked to me when we met again. What! It’s like a bomb exploding in my head. I can hardly believe this. “But do you know, I’m not a lesbian, actually I’m a bisexual” her words just is like to remind me that surprise is not finish. “Tonight we have a party, do you want join” she whispered in my ear. Of cause, I……. will come. Heard my words, she put one pieces of paper into my pocket. It’s her phone number.

When I arrived the place we appointed, I’m stunned. Oh, my god, a private villa. Soon, I know it’s not a joke. Because she meet me at the gate and wearing only bikini. I feel extremely flattered and awkward. She is swimming in her pool before I come. Her house is very big, but only three people here. Her girlfriend and me are the only two people been invited. After dinner Angela take me to her private pool. Then Angela and her girlfriend take off all the clothes and look at me. I’m really an idiot if I don’t know what will happen. A real threesome, I only experienced it in my dream.

The next morning they tell me everything. They are very rich woman and they are bisexual. They meet each other in the college. And want find a man to join them. So they find me. I feel very lucky. This should be the story in a movie. But it’s happen to me. After that, we live together. My life become difference from now on.

My plan about my future bisexual life.

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I’m a bisexual lives in a small town. 22 years old and nothing special. I don’t want to come out. My life is perfect now. I am working in a flower market. My boss is a very kind old man. Also I read a lot of news about bisexual. I have ever searched many articles about bisexual.

Although my life is clam, I’m a young man. Just the same as other youth, I like hip-pop, I like extreme sports, also I like beautiful girl. One more, I like handsome boy too. I never told anyone that I am bisexual. Even my parents and my best friends don’t know it. It’s a secret belong to me. There are several gay groups in our small town and the neighbor towns. I never join the party of them. It’s nothing about the sexual orientation. As I know, many straight guys ever joined the party several times. I heard that they have threesome date sometimes. I swear I really want to join them. But there are many works to do every day. I’m too tired to go out the room, let alone join a party.

I have a plan, I joined a bisexual date site at 19 years old. I meet a bisexual girl there. We are the same age. And she lives 50 miles away. Every week I would try to meet her. She is very beautiful. When I save enough money to buy the ring, I will make her a proposal. My dream will come true soon.

We had discussed our future life. At first, we don’t prepare to have a baby before 30. And then we will enjoy our real bisexual life. We would like to join different kinds of date. Seeking a gay/bisexual/lesbian to join us. It seems very exciting. If we looking for a good men or women, we will live together. If the mind cannot come true, we will have several babies and enjoy happiness life. When we are old lay on the chairs together and recall our young age.

The first Lesbian I met at 18 years old.

I’m a bisexual boy, but I never told anyone else. Until I graduated from senior high school, no one knows my secret. I’m very diffidence and have few friends. So, I have no girlfriend in past years.

I have a plan to my future. To be the “S-Bisexual”, it means “straight-bisexual”. I will not come out in the future. I may have a girlfriend after graduating from university. Then we will get married and have several babies. I think I can be loyal to my partner.

But everything have changed at the second weeks of the vacation. All my friends (in fact only two) invite me to join a party. It is said only under 20 year old youth could join. The address is the park at the east of our small town. I can drive there in 20 minutes. Maybe I should release myself at this time, I think so. And I promised my friends I will arrived there on time.

It’s really a big party. Almost 40 guys there when I arrived. I am familiar with half of them. Because they are my schoolmate. I greet them and look around the same time. A girl catch my attention. She is about 5’7’’. Really a hot girl and she is looking at me that time. Suddenly my heart beat very fast, “I must date with her” the thought filled up my mind. The party will last to tomorrow morning, I have many chances to talk to her.

Time: 1:15 AM.
Place: at some corner of the park.
Finally, I kiss her lips. “I’m a lesbian” she said. “I’m….” I want to respond some words, but I cannot say a word. I just look at her, I know she must have something to say. “I have a girlfriend, she is not a lesbian but a bisexual. She said that love you for a long time. I don’t want lose her, so I want to try if I could date with you. Do you want a threesome?” Her words is just like a bomb explode in my mind. At the moment I know our story are just begin.

As a bisexual/gay/lesbian, do you enthusiasm overmuch sometimes?

If you meet a bisexual/gay/lesbian luckily and he/she is very enthusiasm, please don’t lie to him/her. Because they didn’t get hurt from the world before. I think you would not like to be the first one to hurt them. The reason why I make the conclusion is less people could keep enthusiasm to others, if he/she ever have been hurt. Do you agree with me?

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LGBT happened to be the groups are easier get hurt. Why? Please listen to me.

If you ever have met bisexual/gay/lesbian, you may know the plight of LGBT groups more or less. Obviously, it couldn’t be very good. I’m thinking about why so many people said that bisexual are promiscuous. The viewpoint must be wrong even if without proving. We couldn’t depend on few rumors to judge a group is good or not. We have given LGBT groups lots of hurt, please stop hurting them by your words.

Gay and lesbian usually loyal to a relationship. They just like lonely cheetah walking in boundless prairie. Waiting for partner appears at any moment. You may want to contradict me that there are many gay and lesbian communities for gay and lesbian to meet a relationship. But how do you know what they encountered is not an accident. True love is the most mysterious thing in the world. Few lucky guys can get it. Every times when you meet a stranger is a chance to get true love. How do you control yourself don’t chase it? This is the reason why gay/lesbian all most enthusiasm to every relationship.

Omg, my sister is lesbian!!!

Have you ever thought that you or your family members are bisexual, gay? My answer is no, I didn’t think about this. But it was happened in my life. My sister is lesbian.

I’m straight, but I don’t reject bisexual or gay/lesbian at all. I knew she is lesbian since 3 years ago. I love my sister very much and I want she can have a happiness life. But if she is a lesbian, it becomes harder.

At first, our parents could hardly to accept it. They all love her very much. Our parents don’t expect my sister have a rich life but just want she lives as a normal girl. But things go contrary to their wishes. She is born to special. We find it out years later. It do not affect that my sister become an excellent daughter. She love our parents very much and very optimistic. She always said to me “it’s nothing to be a lesbian”.

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I saw her “girlfriends” several times. They are all nice girl, beautiful and smart. I am willing to stay with them. My sister call their love “Platonic Love”. She have a clear plan to her future. At first, graduate from university. Second, looking for a job to make some money. Third, live with her “girlfriends”. It sound very easy, does it?

My sister is lucky, because she meet few “girlfriends” at school. It saves her a lot of time to looking for another lesbian. They are coming from different places. They get together because they have the same dreams. I knew LGBT groups from my sister and I searched much information on internet. So I knew the situation of LGBT groups very much even if I’m not belong to LGBT. Many youths too impatient to wait to come out as bisexual or gay/lesbian. Because it sound very cool, I think so. Most of them could be called “Bi-curious, Gay/Lesbian-curious” my sister said. It’s doesn’t difficult to resolution it. They can hardly to keeps a relationship for a long time. Generally, they will finish a relationship in 1-3 months. It make people feel that bisexual, lesbian/gay are disloyal to a relationship.

There are a lot of lesbian/gay, bisexual people like my sister in the world. I don’t know how does my parents will deal with the problem? It is hardly to think about. But there is a rule between families; that is “Love can defeat anything”.