Whether gay couple should get married?

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Obviously, this question cannot be discussed in those countries which don’t acknowledge gay’s marriage. But we often get “No” answer from countries which open gay’s marriage. If you are gay, have you ever think about the question – Why we need to get married?

Different from straight marriage, gay’s marriage open from the modern era. Many gay couples choose not get married. Not all of gay couples are not willing to get married. They just not sure is it worth to do. Get married become very easy now. You just need a piece of paper and post your photos on it, then you got married. It looks like so easy, but will you believe a piece of paper, even it receive legal protection. Of cause not. What receive legal protection is the relationship, but not your love. But sometimes gay couples don’t know how to protect the tender relationship.

There are many straight couples around us. You could see them at bus station, at super market, on the street, almost anywhere. Have you saw many gay couples around you? For most of gay couples, there is few experience of marriage for them. No one knows whether it is a good choice. This situation lead that we can hardly learn about gay’s marriage. Even the gay guys could hardly learn about it.

There are two ways for him to learn about gay’s marriage. The one is join some gay dating sites. They could chat many gay friends there and learn about gay relationship. Or looking for a good guy to dating and experience the true gay love. The other way is join some gay parties or clubs. If you want learn about someone, you need to join his life. Observer could never make the right choice. Only the real experience is credible.

It is easy to understand why gay people don’t like to get marriage in the situation above. There is another serious problem. If homosexual choose to build a family, should they bring up children? I think it is not absolute. It is depend on the willing of gay couple. Some people support the view that gay couldn’t bring up children. Their argument is gay parents’ sexual orientation will have a bad influence to the children. But I think it’s absurd. According to the theory, killer’s children should be killer; liars’ children should be liar; robbers’ children should be robber. Answer my question with your common senses, does it right? We use love and outlook on life but not sexual orientation to teach children. Everyone have themselves sexual orientation, it couldn’t be changed. The only difference between gay’s children and straight’s children is gay’s children have a good acceptability to gay. It have been proved by many researcher.

As a gay please remember that no matter what choice you did, please make sure you are free and you are willing to do it.

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I fall in love with a bisexual woman who has died for 300 years.

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Today I read a story about a bisexual woman Julie d’Aubigny (Title&stage name Mademoiselle Maupin). A famous singer, swordswoman, transvestism, bisexuality. She has an excellent life more than the story in novel.

Julie d’Abbigny was born in 1673 to Gaston d’Aubigny. She learned dancing, reading, drawing, and fencing and dressed as a boy from an early age. Singing and fencing is her favorite things and she is good at them. By the age of fourteen, she became a mistress of the Count d’Armagnac who had her married to Sieur de Maupin of Saint-Germain-en-Laye for one year.

In 1688, Madame de Maupin became involved with an assistant fencing master named Sérannes. When Lieutenant-General of Police tried to apprehend Sérannes for killing a man in an illegal duel, the pair fled the city to Marseille. To surviving, they have to perform singing and fencing on the way.

For convenience, Julie dressed as man. However, she never cover that she is a woman indeed. She meet a woman who is a daughter of a merchant prince in 1690, when she is showing in Marseille opera house. They begin the woman’s love with vigour and vitality. To obstructing their connection, the girl’s folk’s send her to the convent. When the girl’s parents put her away in the Visitandines convent in Avignon, Julie followed. In order to get her lover back, stole the body of a dead nun, placed it in her lover’s bed and set the room on fire so that they could escape together. But the plan didn’t work. They were captured at a farm village nearby and Julie killed one police and serious injury two polices.

Finally, Julie succeeded in breaking prison and fled to Paris. Soon after, she became very famous with her excellent voice, brilliant performance, wear men’s clothing and date with both woman and man. At a masked ball in 1695, Julie burst in and wearing man’s clothes with sword hung over her waist. She courted to the most beautiful girl in the masked ball.

After that Julie start a journey to Belgium, Spain and so on. She came back to Paris at 1698 and became chief actress of Paris Opera. She fall in love with Florensac marquise in the last years of life. In 1705, marquise pass away due to the sudden disease. Julie is very sad and say goodbye to the stage. Finally, Julie died in convent at 37 years old.

What a wonderful life of a bisexual woman it is. I almost cannot believe what she did in that age. She is fighting all the time for her life. She is a great woman, a great bisexual woman. I have to say that she has won my heart. I have fall in love with her even if she died for 300 years.

I’m a gay, but I really want be a girl!

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I’m a gay, but I really want be a girl. I want show my love to partner in public. I want kiss him, I want hug him. But others always look at us with strange eyes. I cannot turn a blind eye to it. I cannot live like other gays. I’m uncomfortable about it.

I wish my love could get blessing from all my friends and folks. But my parents don’t like my partner. They look at us just like we are stranger. Our friends often make fun of us. I know that they are unintentional. But they have hurt me actually.

I receive many requests from gay community. Because I often join some gay parties and have fun in gay club. I don’t want join any community because I just want live my life. I want play with other gays but not join a group of community. Are you must join a clan if you like play game? Of cause not. I’m a small potato and don’t want show something to others. The main wish is find a man who could love me forever, like the story in the book. He don’t need to be the rich and handsome. But he must be a kind man. We could traveling together. Play all the items in amusement park like all couples.

I want be a girl, so that we don’t need to come out. I want be a girl, so that our marriage could get blessing from all of our friends and folks. I want be a girl, so that we won’t hear others say “They are gay”. Instead, they will say “They looks like so happiness”. I want be a girl, so that I can easy to find a man to date. But now I could only find friends in the gay clubs or some gay dating sites. I want be a girl, so that I could have our own babies.

But now I am a gay, they said “If you shed tears then you miss the sun, you also miss the stars”. From now on to be a happy gay. Caring about everyone who love me. It must be true love, if your partner could get nothing but love from you.

I’m a gay, but I want be a girl! Am I wrong?

What will you do when you doubt that you are gay?

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Simon isn’t gay, but he spend hours every day to worry about whether he is gay.

Since he worry about he is gay, he will avoid to get in touch with other male when he is working. He even won’t stay with another male alone. He avoid to join sports activities with his son. So that he will not get in touch with son’s coaches and other daddies.

Simon suffers from HOCD (Compulsive sexual orientation). People who suffers from HOCD is afraid to be gay or treated as gay. Sometimes this illness is confused with Homophobia. In this condition, someone is actually gay, lesbian or bisexual, but their sexual orientation make them worrying. The people who suffers from HOCD will always obsessive themselves to understand they are not gay. In fact, they are not gay indeed.

Should you be afraid to be gay? Of cause not. If you are gay identified, don’t worry about it. It’s not a terrible thing. Many gays live a happiness life. Gay’s live environment has a big improved with time goes on. More and more people is willing to accept gay, lesbian and bisexual and support them. There are many bisexual, gay and lesbian communities were built.

You don’t have to date with gay to identify yourself. If you doubt that you are gay, you can try to find out which gender can attract you. The male or female. It’s the easiest way. Please don’t date with gay by using bisexual tag. It may heart your partner. Cheat is unforgiven in a serious relationship. It is ok, if both you just want have some fun.

Don’t sell yourself short – Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian!

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Every time I heard people talk about Bisexuality, Gay, Lesbian and the main keywords are “Suicide”, ”Self-imposed isolation”, “Self-abasement”, “Unhappy”. It is make me very sad. Every time I heard people talk about Bisexuality, Gay, Lesbian and the main keywords are “Suicide”, ”Self-imposed isolation”, “Self-abasement”, “Unhappy”. It is make me very sad.
I have heard many Gay, Bisexual, Lesbian talk about their experience. They always like to begin with this sentence “At first, I feel very terrible, and I stay and home for X months. I even try to suicide…” It seems to be a tradition that every Bisexuality, Gay, Lesbian must have a sad past. But does it actually right?
At first, we should learn that why so many people think that to be a LGBT is an unhappy thing? For the moment, LGBT people have an embarrassing status in social. On the one hand government have past the laws that LGBT’s marriage is legal, but on the other hand a part of people cannot accept this reality psychologically within a short time. As a result LGBT were suffered varying degrees of discrimination and reject.
This is true, we cannot escape it. But this is one side of current situation. We cannot cover our eyes with our hands in by day and say it is night. In fact, many communities and groups are helping Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian fish to identify themselves and enjoy the colorful life. All the confusions are always temporary. As a bisexual, gay, lesbian fish what you should do at first isn’t coming out, but learn about the current status of the groups.
When you have learned about LGBT you will know that it’s not terrible to be a bisexual, gay, lesbian.

1. You are not alone. There are many LGBT people around the world.

2. It’s a normal thing. Don’t feel pressured. Everyone should come out in their own time. Whether to coming out depend on if you are ready.

3. Label yourself is not necessary. Love depend on the feeling but not the same label.

4. Learn about how other bisexual, gay, lesbian come out is very helpful. Try your best to avoid some unnecessary trouble.

5. Tell someone. Whether you prepare to coming out, it is good idea to relieve the pressure. Relaxed brain could help you make right decisions.
It’s like accepting that the earth is round. Someday people will accept bisexual, gay, lesbian. What we need to do is life a happy life. Looking for bisexual fun, have a gay relationship, date with a lesbian; do anything you want when you are ready. The worst decision is hiding yourself and tasting the sadness.

Some tips for bisexual fish.

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If you are lucky to be a bisexual fish, don’t worry about it. There are some tips from others’ experience, and those tips could help you to blend in bisexual group faster. If you are lucky to be a bisexual fish, don’t worry about it. There are some tips from others’ experience, and those tips could help you to blend in bisexual group faster.
Bisexuality is different with other sexual orientation people. Bisexuality is harder to identify than gay and lesbian. Based on the flow of the sexual, bisexual people have a multidirectional choices. These choices could confuse bisexual people. But don’t worry about it. Every Bi people has experienced it. They have some tips for the bisexual fish.
1. Don’t be restrained by your identify. Sexual orientation is flowing. It could change in the future. The bisexual label will not follow you forever. At first, you should know that you are bisexual at present. There are some women who identify as lesbian even though they date men. The function of label is that it could help you find the right community. So that the label is not permanent even if it is daunting. Don’t treat the label as an invariable faith.
2. Bisexual community grow up fast. You even don’t know “bisexual” when you are in senior high school. You may not meet any bisexual in college. But after graduation you can met so many gay, lesbian, bisexual. Bisexual is everywhere. You just don’t know it. Because gay, lesbian and straight are obviously. Anyone may indeed be bisexual. If you can join a bisexual community, you will know it clearly.
3. Whether to coming out.This is not only care about bisexuality. Gay and lesbian also face the same question. It’s harmful to anyone that suppress themselves for a long time. You may know who is really love you when you come out. The people who don’t care about you may reject you without hesitation. The people who treat you as acquaintance will alienation you. The people who really love you will always give you warm hug anytime and anywhere. So what is your choice?

I want date with a lesbian girl.

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I know that there are many lesbians in the world. But I just saw them on TV or movies, I never date with a lesbian in my life. I’m very curious about lesbian. I cannot enter lesbian bar or party, since I’m a man, a bisexual man.

I don’t meet any difficulty while identify my sexual orientation. I realized that I’m a bisexual when I was 16 years old. I read many articles about LGBT groups because I’m interested in LGBT. I heard the word “Platonic Love” at 15 years old. I am very yearn for the “Platonic Love”. I think I can find the other half of myself in the world. I tried it when I was 17 years old. I have a relationship with a boy. He is gay, I’m bisexual. But I just want love, and what he want is having sex. We break up 3 months later.

I’m a normal bisexual man. I don’t reject to have sex. I also enjoy sex. I just don’t think that there is only sex within a relationship. Then I keep single for a long time. I looking for some bisexual fun between 17 and 20 years old. But I don’t begin any relationship and just have fun with other friends. I joined some gay and bisexual parties. I tried to have sex with boy and girl. And have several real threesome dates.

I feel void and lonely when I’m alone. I want there is someone could have breakfast with me. I want share my happiness to who I love but not only my friends. I try to chat with some strangers on Facebook, Google and other chat community. But you know, it just mess me up. It’s only waste my time.

I was dated with gay and girl. But I was not dated with a lesbian. I cannot imagine it. You could make friend with a lesbian girl. But have date with lesbian is something else. Just like straight date with a gay. That sounds ridiculous. I want explore the special fun with lesbian, but it just a dream. Does anyone else ever tried it? I think it must be an amazing date.

Now I’m 27 years old. I’m still seeking a date with lesbian. Even if I was refused many times. Maybe it is because of its impossible make me so fascinated.

Brown’s bisexual doctor boyfriend.

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Brown is a sport boy. He often join some extreme sports party. But many his friends don’t know that he is actually a gay. He never told to anyone. He doesn’t afraid of others know that. He just don’t want let friends know he is gay before looking for true love.

But unluckily he get a very serious injury while join an extreme sport. He was riding his bicycle through the forest very fast and an accident happened. He tripped and lose two tooth, fracture of lower leg. Fortunately, he could regain his health by taking months rest and nourishment. Obviously, he couldn’t join the extreme sport in the next months. He have to stay at home and accept the treat.

His doctor is a very famous doctor named John. But people call him gay John in private. Of cause he is not a gay. Opposite, he has a very beautiful wife. They love each other very much.

Brown meet John at home on a sunny afternoon. They discussed the state of Brown’s illness. And John told Brown his therapeutic schedule. They reached a preliminary agreement in the afternoon. Brown was satisfied with John’s suggestion and asked John have diner together.

They talked a lot when have diner. They talked like old friends. “I heard that they call you gay John, can you tell me your story?” Brown asked.

“Haha, you have heard of that. In fact, I’m a bi. And I ever have a boyfriend in high school. Almost everyone know that.” John said. “I’m sorry to hear that, I come here since 5 years ago and I don’t know your story and I’m gay too.” Brown responded. They looked at each other after Brown’s words. Finally, Brown kissed John. John seemed to want to avoid it. But he didn’t.

After that, they become the best “friends”. Brown fully recovered after six months.

How many people are sheer bisexual?

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Human’s nature is exploring. Exploring the unknown area and ourselves. I have a question since the day I identified as bisexual. How many bisexual lives in the world. I know nobody could give me the detailed figures. Because nobody could finish the statistical work, it is beyond work itself.

Depend on the definition of human’s gender, we can easy to differentiate LGTS people. But bisexual people is the hardest to differentiate. Why? Because themselves are confused sometime. This is the reason that bisexual’s self-identify is usually late than gay & les. If you are attracted by a cute girl and you sure that the feeling is real, what should you do? At the same time, you are attracted by a handsome boy and you also sure that the feeling is real, what should you do?

Heterosexual often meet the first situation. And it’s often comes out in the beginning of a film. Almost all love story begin with a moment that a female/male attract by another female/male. If the roles are male, it’s a gay film. If the roles are female, it’s a lesbian film. If the roles have both female and male, it’s a heterosexual film. It could not accurate, it may be a bisexual film too. But bisexual feature film is really infrequent. Because it really hard to control. Let’s talk about the reason below.

Bisexual of meet the second situation. You will confused the problem. If you choose the girl, it’s just a heterosexual love story. If you choose the boy, it’s just a gay love story. But if you choose both of them, I don’t know whether they can accept you. What I can sure is the social will reject your relationship. In human’s history, the loyal love is a very important rule. It’s a moral base line to everyone. Who go against it is challenge the rule. But bisexual is seems born to go against the rule. Many bisexuals are choose to observe the rule. So that bisexual could hardly been acknowledge by social. Therefore, bisexual was labelled many tags. This sexual orientation was rejected by many people (include bisexual) automatically. Bisexual choose to live as gay or heterosexuality.

In addition to this, out of fresh or trend many youth come out as bisexual. They may just for fun or looking for an exciting date. But it hurt someone who want find a serious relationship. Two people’s world are very complicated, much less three people’s world. The people have a bisexual marriage is very lucky. Not all bisexual want a bisexual marriage. A simple and normal life is enough for most people. And they are not willing to show their bisexual identify. We will never know how many bisexual in the world. So, let it become a secret. Anyway, a happiness life is most important.