Bisexual is different with straight and gay, living in the gray area between “straight” and “gay”. The reason why we call it gray area is no one really know bisexual very much, except “bisexuality”. They often have to explain “what is real bisexuality” – more than gay and lesbian. Sometime bisexual was refused before got a chance to explain. This kind of awkwardness is happening every day and everywhere.
Why bisexual need to explain to others?
You may have the bewilderment that why bisexual have to explain to others. I’m bisexual, I don’t need to tell others my sexual orientation. I just need to live my life. But look around please, the living environment of bisexual isn’t optimistic. Many people wouldn’t like to accept bisexual due to they are not “pure”. The “pure” is refer to sexual orientation, but not for love. There is no doubt that all men are equal before love. Obviously, all man like to learn about partners’ sexual orientation before begin a relationship. So that, bisexual need to explain to every possible partners again and again, this process is full of pain and hope.
Is there any way to get rid of this destiny?
The answer is “Yes”. In fact, nothing is absolute. Good news is when life deals out its cruellest blows, our unconscious will be working overtime to find the upside.
The first solution is forget your bisexual identify, if you tend to heterosexual you can looking for straight partners, if you tend to homosexual you can match gay or lesbian partners, If you tend to both of the two sexual orientation, accept one and reject one. Love is the only standard to seeking true lover. We neither deny bisexual sexual orientation nor deprive bisexuality’s right of looking for love. This is life, you get something, so you need pay something.
The second way is much easier. You don’t need to change anything. That is looking for other bisexual and bi curious. Also you can looking for other open-minded people. No one knows you better than yourself. As I know, there are many bisexual couples distributed all over the world. Looking for bisexual dating sites and groups is very easy. You even could finish a bisexual matching on your phone. You could avoid most of awkward at there.
Sometimes we need a partner just want there is someone to have breakfast together. It’s a perfect thing if he/she is just right the one you love most. Begin a relationship always very easy, but loving someone is difficult.