How do inborn deaf-mutes know that they are gay or bisexual?

A gay or bisexual will realize their sexual orientation almost 13 years old. Because a person could have obvious gender consciousness at this age. They could pick up the person who can attract them with enough ability to distinguish. This is a period of sexual orientation enlightenment. Many gays and bisexuals begin to have the crush on person. Different sexual orientation often makes them uncomfortable and worrying.

Someone choose to come out to their best friends. This is the best way to pour out. It’s not suitable to have a gay or bisexual relationship at that age. So that, many gays and bisexuals are pass that time with a hazy feeling and some longing of the special relationship. Until they grow up and identify themselves, they could actually become a gay and bisexual.

Normal people have so hard a identify process. How do inborn deaf-mutes know that they are gay or bisexual? This is related to the way they know the world. Smell and touch is the basic way of deaf-mutes to know the world. But the most important way to understand the world is our feeling. All of our senses makes up our feeling. Listen, watch, smell, touch and speak is all the basic sense of human. When a people lose one or more basic senses, then others senses will be stronger than normal humans. This is why so many blind persons work on piano tuner.

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From this perspective, the biggest advantage of deaf-mutes gays and bisexuals is sensitive touch and smell. The difference between males and females is not only the macroscopic features but also different types of hormones.

We often said that “you smell so sexy”. It does not means sexy could be smelled. It is the smell makes us been attracted. The male and female also have different smell. In the Animalia, many animals attract partner with smell. I think it’s possible a main way for deaf-mutes gays and bisexuals to identify themselves. In their world, maybe not have the word “come out”. Here only have good smell and normal smell in their mind.

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Another key factor for deaf-mutes gays and bisexuals to identify themselves is touch. We use touch to learn the world. The shape of the thing, temperature, hardness of something and so on. Almost all things in the world we could feel it by touching. All of our skin can touch the world, but not just by hands. Feel the wind, the water and the temperature of your lips. Although deaf-mutes gays and bisexuals couldn’t live as normal. But I think it couldn’t be the hinder of their self-knowledge.

They may meet less people than normal human. It means they have less chance to find suitable partner. But the biggest advantage of deaf-mutes gays and bisexuals is that they looking for partner by using heart and feeling.

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Could bisexuality be corrected?

Could bisexuality be corrected?” there always have “good” people who are worried about this question.

My question is “Could straight be corrected?” Why does straight need to be corrected? maybe you will asked me. “Because straight is different from us.”  Is this answer justified?

There is gay where there is straight. Both gay and straight are intrinsic. So why don’t we correct straight first!

The psychological roots of gay & bisexual need to be corrected is: First, as “most people” thought, we are born to give the “dissidents” in the group a tag type. The public is not understanding enough to gay & bisexual. And they are easily marked the label “promiscuity, AIDS” by the mass media.

The idea above has finished analyze, let’s discuss what measures have done to correct gay & bisexual.

Did anyone try to correct gay & bisexual? Of course, the so-called “treatment” usually takes the behavioral approach. One of my bisexual friend told me that once he had a period of doubt about his sexual orientation. He decided to correct it because he wanted to figure himself out: “I am male first and then I am bisexual”. With the spirit of being responsible for himself, he accepted a period of the so-called “correction”.

The way of correct is shows him some pictures. The theme of these pictures are male and female. At the same time there are instruments attached to his body. Once he have a physical response to the male pictures, he applied an electric shock. “After having several treatment, I am not only don’t interested in men, but also don’t interested in human.” He said.

 

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Many countries claim that gay & bisexual are not any kind of mental illness, mental disorders or emotional problems. Any external means attempt to change the behavior of human nature will cause great harm to people’s physical and mental. Whether it is gay & bisexual or straight.

What’s the feeling when your buddy is bisexual!

I asked him before write the article “may I mention you in the article?”

He said “what’s the title?”

Me “what’s the feeling when have a bisexual buddy

Him “hahahahahahaha I like it”

My bisexual friend is little special, he said that he like male more than female. So I could regard him as a gay. I know that is not quite accurate. However, I will follow him. He said “please call me Mr.B”

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What is the difference of the life when you have a gay buddy?

1. If you are single, he have half responsibility.
Because of Mr.B is not sissy(Sissy≠Gay, important), so that many people think that we are couple. I even couldn’t explain it.

2. Must learn the difference between “Straight” and “Mr.B”.
Because of I almost don’t know how to talk with “straight”. Often cause all sorts of unnecessary misunderstanding. I can talk anything with Mr.B. In fact, I don’t know the limit of the topic between straight woman and man.

3. Always have different idea.
Perhaps I am affected by the status of Mr.B in the social. I am prefer to study out the results. Always treat the result that obtained by feeling with query and criticize. Especially when people around think that a common thing must happen. My head will flashed “Why?” “Why have to happened”. Perhaps another state of existence is reasonable? Like Mr.B, like bisexual, like gay, not everyone is “straight”.

Why does Mr.B choose not come out?

We are classmate in the whole study life. Someday he told me that he is bisexual but prefer man. I asked “why talk to me?” Mr.B said: ” I think I can tell you ”
At that time I don’t know what homosexuality means. Don’t know how was homosexuality be treated by the community. Just think that a male classmate could also like boy.

Many years later, I think the fact have no difference with my original idea. But the people who can accept gay less than our image. However, there are no rules can protect gay and bisexual when they were discriminated.

Mr.B will not come out easily. Also will not tell others his sexual orientation. At least, he is looks like a straight man.

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What Mr.B will do next?

The evaluation of gay relationships is related to the reason what they consider to be gay. Another words, if they think that gay is innate, they will be more inclined to accept.
Researches show that the more people contact to gay&lesbian, the more they tend to praise them. So that do not easily judge one thing if you don’t understand it. Follow your heart but not others’ words.

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Once in a shopping mall, a gay couple walk on our side hand in hand. Mr.B was very excited but lowered his voice and cheering. “Gay couple are holding hands together!
I looked his face, there is exciting and envious. This should be the happiness in his mind.