“Could bisexuality be corrected?” there always have “good” people who are worried about this question.
My question is “Could straight be corrected?” Why does straight need to be corrected? maybe you will asked me. “Because straight is different from us.” Is this answer justified?
There is gay where there is straight. Both gay and straight are intrinsic. So why don’t we correct straight first!
The psychological roots of gay & bisexual need to be corrected is: First, as “most people” thought, we are born to give the “dissidents” in the group a tag type. The public is not understanding enough to gay & bisexual. And they are easily marked the label “promiscuity, AIDS” by the mass media.
The idea above has finished analyze, let’s discuss what measures have done to correct gay & bisexual.
Did anyone try to correct gay & bisexual? Of course, the so-called “treatment” usually takes the behavioral approach. One of my bisexual friend told me that once he had a period of doubt about his sexual orientation. He decided to correct it because he wanted to figure himself out: “I am male first and then I am bisexual”. With the spirit of being responsible for himself, he accepted a period of the so-called “correction”.
The way of correct is shows him some pictures. The theme of these pictures are male and female. At the same time there are instruments attached to his body. Once he have a physical response to the male pictures, he applied an electric shock. “After having several treatment, I am not only don’t interested in men, but also don’t interested in human.” He said.
Many countries claim that gay & bisexual are not any kind of mental illness, mental disorders or emotional problems. Any external means attempt to change the behavior of human nature will cause great harm to people’s physical and mental. Whether it is gay & bisexual or straight.
There are various things try to make bisexual unhappy every day. What we should do is fighting for them and try the best to be a positive and optimistic person. Some people have summarized a set of methods for bisexual.
1. Appreciate the world around you.
The object to be appreciated could be a bird, a tree, a beautiful sunrise or sunset, or even a dress someone wear.
Help others not only could make others feel happier, but also enhance your own positive emotions. And such a move is the same as moving a thing.
3. Develop and strengthen your relationships.
Building a good social relationship with friends or family can enhance your sense of self-worth. Sometimes single people looks like very cool. But we are living in social. We need to share and obtain happy emotion. Bisexual need to develop relationships more than straight. Because bisexual is really a small group. Anyone need to communicate with others.
4. Set up a goal you can achieve.
I have heard a story. There is a boy want to come out but was opposed by family. He feel painful and try to drink all day. Everyone’s acceptance for bisexual is different. What we should do when encountered oppose? Neither fight with them nor self-abandonment. Try to understand each other. Then try to set up a goal for yourself. When you achieve all your goal one by one, you will find that all the opposition disappear. Because you have proved that you have a good life. And you can plan your future. This time, freedom is mastered in your hands.
5. Choose to accept yourself, whether it is shortcomings or other side.
Pay more attention to own positive characteristics and achievements. Instead of focus on the defect. Who beautiful is contingent lovely, but who lovely must be beautiful. If you want others to love you, at first you should fall in love with yourself. To be a happy LGBT, the lucky will always follow you.
6. Practice your heart.
Do not let the loss, stress, failure, trauma to defeat you. Remember that if life gives you a lemon, it will be made into lemon juice. No one could be recognized by all. A strong heart is necessary to LGBT.