I asked him before write the article “may I mention you in the article?”
He said “what’s the title?”
Me “what’s the feeling when have a bisexual buddy”
Him “hahahahahahaha I like it”
My bisexual friend is little special, he said that he like male more than female. So I could regard him as a gay. I know that is not quite accurate. However, I will follow him. He said “please call me Mr.B”
What is the difference of the life when you have a gay buddy?
1. If you are single, he have half responsibility.
Because of Mr.B is not sissy(Sissy≠Gay, important), so that many people think that we are couple. I even couldn’t explain it.
2. Must learn the difference between “Straight” and “Mr.B”.
Because of I almost don’t know how to talk with “straight”. Often cause all sorts of unnecessary misunderstanding. I can talk anything with Mr.B. In fact, I don’t know the limit of the topic between straight woman and man.
3. Always have different idea.
Perhaps I am affected by the status of Mr.B in the social. I am prefer to study out the results. Always treat the result that obtained by feeling with query and criticize. Especially when people around think that a common thing must happen. My head will flashed “Why?” “Why have to happened”. Perhaps another state of existence is reasonable? Like Mr.B, like bisexual, like gay, not everyone is “straight”.
Why does Mr.B choose not come out?
We are classmate in the whole study life. Someday he told me that he is bisexual but prefer man. I asked “why talk to me?” Mr.B said: ” I think I can tell you ”
At that time I don’t know what homosexuality means. Don’t know how was homosexuality be treated by the community. Just think that a male classmate could also like boy.
Many years later, I think the fact have no difference with my original idea. But the people who can accept gay less than our image. However, there are no rules can protect gay and bisexual when they were discriminated.
Mr.B will not come out easily. Also will not tell others his sexual orientation. At least, he is looks like a straight man.
What Mr.B will do next?
The evaluation of gay relationships is related to the reason what they consider to be gay. Another words, if they think that gay is innate, they will be more inclined to accept.
Researches show that the more people contact to gay&lesbian, the more they tend to praise them. So that do not easily judge one thing if you don’t understand it. Follow your heart but not others’ words.
Once in a shopping mall, a gay couple walk on our side hand in hand. Mr.B was very excited but lowered his voice and cheering. “Gay couple are holding hands together!”
I looked his face, there is exciting and envious. This should be the happiness in his mind.