Someone said that “Love is the attitude of one person to another, but not the response of one organ to another”. I think the sentence have annotated what is actually gay. But it’s really difficult to make everyone agree with it.
Gay groups were been misunderstanding past and present. There is always a secret in their life. How about the future? Nobody knows. A famous bisexual people said that many people ask me “whether I should come out?” He usually tried to stop them at that time. “Because not everyone could face so much troubles with attic faith”. He said. In fact, he wish more and more gay and bisexual come out, so that there is no one need to come out.
There is no one want to be gay or bisexual. If there is a choice, no one will choose to be a different person. And live a difficult life than others. To be gay, bisexual or heterosexual is not a multiple choice. It’s that we born to be. Can you choose to be a male or female when you be born?
Homosexual and bisexual is not monster, they just happen fall in love with someone have same sex. Yes, many people cannot understand homosexual and bisexual. Did you have tried to understand them? There is no rule said that we must understand homosexual and bisexual, at least try to know them and understand them.
We all ordinary people on the earth. When we judge a person’s life, what he did is more important than who he was and his sexual orientation.
There are various things try to make bisexual unhappy every day. What we should do is fighting for them and try the best to be a positive and optimistic person. Some people have summarized a set of methods for bisexual.
1. Appreciate the world around you.
The object to be appreciated could be a bird, a tree, a beautiful sunrise or sunset, or even a dress someone wear.
Help others not only could make others feel happier, but also enhance your own positive emotions. And such a move is the same as moving a thing.
3. Develop and strengthen your relationships.
Building a good social relationship with friends or family can enhance your sense of self-worth. Sometimes single people looks like very cool. But we are living in social. We need to share and obtain happy emotion. Bisexual need to develop relationships more than straight. Because bisexual is really a small group. Anyone need to communicate with others.
4. Set up a goal you can achieve.
I have heard a story. There is a boy want to come out but was opposed by family. He feel painful and try to drink all day. Everyone’s acceptance for bisexual is different. What we should do when encountered oppose? Neither fight with them nor self-abandonment. Try to understand each other. Then try to set up a goal for yourself. When you achieve all your goal one by one, you will find that all the opposition disappear. Because you have proved that you have a good life. And you can plan your future. This time, freedom is mastered in your hands.
5. Choose to accept yourself, whether it is shortcomings or other side.
Pay more attention to own positive characteristics and achievements. Instead of focus on the defect. Who beautiful is contingent lovely, but who lovely must be beautiful. If you want others to love you, at first you should fall in love with yourself. To be a happy LGBT, the lucky will always follow you.
6. Practice your heart.
Do not let the loss, stress, failure, trauma to defeat you. Remember that if life gives you a lemon, it will be made into lemon juice. No one could be recognized by all. A strong heart is necessary to LGBT.