Whether gay can date with bisexual or straight?

As we know heterosexual only date with heterosexual is as a general rule. Gay’s date rule is as same as straight, and they could only date with gay. Do you agree with this view?

If there is a general rule, there usually have some special rules. Many straights are interested in gay’s date. But it doesn’t means they are bisexual. It’s a kind of curious just like bi-curious. They want to join a gay’s date or bisexual’s date, 3some date. Some research studies show that many heterosexuals would like to date with same sex sometimes. For these heterosexuals, it’s really a difference sexual experience.

Why gays are willing to date with heterosexuals? They have no experience of gay’s date. They even don’t know what to do while join the date. However it is precisely that the reason why they can attract gay is they have no experience. No experience means curious, interesting, so that both sides could feel that they find a new land. They could bring exciting feeling to each other. If you are bored to the normal life and want have a date with gay or lesbian, you can try it. But you’d better know what you’ll never do.

Bisexual is an amazing sexual orientation. The characters of bisexual make it have many kind of choices. But bisexual also have sexual tendency. In fact everyone sexual orientation is flowed. One side is male and another side is female. Bisexual’s sexual orientation close to the middle point. In most cases bisexual will choose a sexual orientation and have a relationship. They may be gay, lesbian or heterosexual in this situation. So that bisexual is more likely to date with straight people. A few bisexuals couldn’t identify their sexual orientation clear, or just like this feeling that can love both male and female. Because in their eyes, male and female are one kind of sexual orientation.

Does it possible that three sexual orientation people could date together? Of cause, yes! A bisexual could date with straight or gay. If you would like to have a threesome date, you may experience a three sexual orientation date. But be careful of whom you will date with. And make sure you can protect yourself.

Why do many bisexual & gay relationship couldn’t last a long time? (Part Two)

At last article, we discussed that why so many bisexual & gay relationship couldn’t last a long time? Does it make you despair? Do we have no solution?

The situation looks like desperate. It seems that any bisexual & gay relationship will turn to insipid, baldness, tasteless as time goes on. However, we could take the initiative to make the relationship have interesting.

Come out of the “comfort zone” of the relationship at first.
Many couples turn the love to some kind of habit in a relationship. There are many fixed things in daily life. Watch movie at weekend, have a good dinner on day of commemoration. The restaurant is fixed. The line is fixed. Even the way of kiss, hug are fixed model. Every time you repetitive the same things day in and day out. Do you think it’s a stable life? The stable life may destroy the surprise and accident. At the same time it destroy the fun of life.

Try to appeal to your partner every day.
When you live together for a long time, have not make trouble to your partner is a grace for him/her. Do you once have the thought? You should know that you can live together as gay or bisexual couple is really an amazing thing. So don’t try to destroy anything. Try to build good relationship. A cup of tea, a carefully prepare dinner is very simple thing but make your partner feel been loved. The more you do to your partner you will get more happiness I think.

Improve your “sex attraction” to your gay & bisexual partner.
Everyone have “sexual desire”. This is the basic requirement of a human. But the “sexual desire” is keeping reduce as time pass by. It’s important for gay & bisexual couples to think that how to keep your “sex attraction” to your partner. Keep a good image always a good idea. Love isn’t continual; it’s make up with countless “heart beat fast” moment and daily chores. The reason way many gay & bisexual couple feel bored to the relationship is that they could only feel the daily chores. But cannot feel the “heart beat fast” moment. This is what the love really need.

No matter you are single or in a relationship. I think your life need some “heart bet fast” moment. Try to find the one who can give you this feeling. Want have some fun with bisexual, want have a relationship with gay, want find a gay & bisexual to chat with; come to onlybidating.com is a good idea.

Be a LGBT dancer who dancing in a storm.

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I love you, but there is a world between us.
I’m gay but you are straight.
I cannot own you in this life.
But you have owned my heart.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I’m bisexual but you are straight.
I love you, but you don’t trust me.
At the moment I choose you, you have been my everything.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I’m lesbian but you are straight.
You said that you want a broad chest, but I only have emaciated shoulder.
The day when you leaved, I cried at home.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I cannot tell you I’m transgender.
I don’t want you look down upon me.
It’s enough for me could see you every day.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
There are someone build the world but not you and me.
I want to break out the world.
But I don’t have enough ability.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I want to cross it.
But I cannot.
They said heterosexual identify is the traffic permit.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I took heart of grace came out.
I wish you can understand me.
But I heared the word “stupid”.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I meet someone at a LGBT date site.
He/she have same situation with me.
A storm is approaching, there have no place for us to elude.

We take hands of each other.
So that we will not wander off in the storm.
Let’s dance, he/she said.
We begin to move our feet.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
The world named “discriminate and prejudice”.
It’s too strong to defeat it.
But if we have a strong heart, the storm could be a background of our stage.
Let’s dance for all LGBT, in the storm that the world give us.

As a gay or bisexual have you been turned down?

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Have you ever showed your love to somebody or you never showed you love to anyone? Because you are afraid to failure. Do you think that as a “loser” you even shouldn’t exist? Have you ever been treated as air? Let’s change the question. Which one you prefer been treated as air or stranger?

Everyone will experience some failures. These kind of failures make us very sensitive to the things and people around us. We could notice every tiny act of others. There are so many broken wings of angels. How can we save the angels or ourselves?

Sometimes a little feedback could cure all the harm.
If someone crash on you but you doesn’t like her/him, tell them directly. Don’t treat them as air. At least, they could keep the self-esteem. Some gays or bisexuals may face the problem many times. No matter you are gay, bisexual or heterosexual, you may be excellent or normal. As an excellent gay or bisexual you may be loved by some heterosexuals. So they fall in love with you. How to refuse them but don’t hurt them is an important things. We call it kindness feedback.

Because when you fall in love with somebody, you will face the same situation. It’s difficult for a gay & bisexual to come out. Find a good gay & bisexual partner is also difficult. No one could promise that you will success. Have you ever been turned down? What’s your mind at that moment?

The LGBT’s life is very hard. Doesn’t mean they have a poor life quality. Opposite, most of them have a happiness life. But how to seek a satisfied partner is really hard. We can turn down others and could be turned down too. The more kindnesses we give to others the more courage we will get to looking for love.

Do gay and bisexual sites worth to sign up?

As time goes on, many kinds of web site come out in our life.

There is Uber when you need to go out but don’t want to drive. There is online supermarket when you want to buy some food. Many services could be asked others to do for you. But however would you like to ask someone love your partner for you?

Obvious, the answer is no for most of people. Although living standards have been improving, but what make us feel more and more lonely? More and more people like traveling and sporting. I think most of them are trying to relax themselves. Because working under great pressure make them feel tired. But does it work? Walking alone, drinking alone, sleeping alone make someone going crazy. Especially, there are few LGBT communities in the city. Few communities couldn’t help all gay and bisexual people.

Many young bisexuals and gays are active in all kinds of bar and party. Having date every day. Then they tell the world that the life of gay and bisexual is very good. It seems that they join a utopia without annoyance. But when they stop, there is only void left beside. What is life? Everyone have different answer. I think at least there must have love in life, not just fun.

Bisexual and gay date site couldn’t make sure to find love for you. But it’s really a shortcut. Do gay and bisexual sites worth to sign up? I think the answer is yes. You can receive noticed at everywhere. They are all around you just like you have many gays and bisexuals neighbors. What you need do is picking out the one, two, three people…… you like. LGBT is absolutely a big group. All the hiding is just for better protection.

 

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Someone is shame to chat up others. But many gay and bisexual people don’t know where to chat up other gays and bisexuals. I think it’s the different between a straight and gay. Love is a right for human. No matter where you are and who you are. If you don’t say what you like to eat, the best cook can’t cooking what you love.

Desire make people become stronger. Love make people unstoppable. Begin from a date, fall in love at a walking under sunset. Choose your favorite bisexual and gay date site and sign up!

How do inborn deaf-mutes know that they are gay or bisexual?

A gay or bisexual will realize their sexual orientation almost 13 years old. Because a person could have obvious gender consciousness at this age. They could pick up the person who can attract them with enough ability to distinguish. This is a period of sexual orientation enlightenment. Many gays and bisexuals begin to have the crush on person. Different sexual orientation often makes them uncomfortable and worrying.

Someone choose to come out to their best friends. This is the best way to pour out. It’s not suitable to have a gay or bisexual relationship at that age. So that, many gays and bisexuals are pass that time with a hazy feeling and some longing of the special relationship. Until they grow up and identify themselves, they could actually become a gay and bisexual.

Normal people have so hard a identify process. How do inborn deaf-mutes know that they are gay or bisexual? This is related to the way they know the world. Smell and touch is the basic way of deaf-mutes to know the world. But the most important way to understand the world is our feeling. All of our senses makes up our feeling. Listen, watch, smell, touch and speak is all the basic sense of human. When a people lose one or more basic senses, then others senses will be stronger than normal humans. This is why so many blind persons work on piano tuner.

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From this perspective, the biggest advantage of deaf-mutes gays and bisexuals is sensitive touch and smell. The difference between males and females is not only the macroscopic features but also different types of hormones.

We often said that “you smell so sexy”. It does not means sexy could be smelled. It is the smell makes us been attracted. The male and female also have different smell. In the Animalia, many animals attract partner with smell. I think it’s possible a main way for deaf-mutes gays and bisexuals to identify themselves. In their world, maybe not have the word “come out”. Here only have good smell and normal smell in their mind.

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Another key factor for deaf-mutes gays and bisexuals to identify themselves is touch. We use touch to learn the world. The shape of the thing, temperature, hardness of something and so on. Almost all things in the world we could feel it by touching. All of our skin can touch the world, but not just by hands. Feel the wind, the water and the temperature of your lips. Although deaf-mutes gays and bisexuals couldn’t live as normal. But I think it couldn’t be the hinder of their self-knowledge.

They may meet less people than normal human. It means they have less chance to find suitable partner. But the biggest advantage of deaf-mutes gays and bisexuals is that they looking for partner by using heart and feeling.

How does the prejudice to bisexuality come about?

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So called prejudice have few kinds of basic particularity:

The first particularity of prejudice: “Speculate without real evidence”. A person who makes his own preferences, tendencies or opinions before making evidence, investigation and mastery of sufficient arguments.

E.g. Many people don’t meet a gay or bisexual before. But they said that bisexual don’t exist and gay is the people with a strange behavior. They would get away from LGBT anytime and anywhere! Maybe is the good luck of LGBT people.

The second particularity of prejudice: “exaggerate the subjective thought”. It can be called “cognitive bias”. Make a partial interpretation of the bisexual groups through insufficient experience and the facts without enough representative.

E.g. Maybe they ever heard that bisexual is attracted by both male and female. They will think that all bisexual would like to have 3some date. And bisexual often betrayal their partner.

The third particularity of prejudice: “Selective acceptance”. Also called confirmation bias. When we have a view we will always accept the favorable explanation for us and ignore, exclude those who oppose us. Even if we know that our views are too one-sided.

E.g. Some bosses knew that hiring bisexuals or homosexuals would not cause damage to their business. But they will still insist on firing LGBT. It seems like that LGBT’s work before came out make them lose a lot of business.

In short, prejudice is a very subjective, lack of objective evidence of personal opinion. And the expansion of the interpretation will turn to general facts which as a measure of value. Small prejudices are harmless. But some prejudice may cause harm to many groups. Such as the racial discrimination, orientationism and other discrimination.

People are biased, regardless of the level of cognitive ability.
In the minds of ordinary people, the relationship between prejudice and cognitive ability is inversely proportional. The less cognitive ability the more likely be biased. In fact, people are biased, regardless of the level of cognitive ability. The difference is that the tendency to bias is different.

Those who are highly cognitive, their prejudices are more of a social impact. For example, they oppose orientationism. They advocate the freedom of individual choice. Everyone should have the right to be the person they want to be. Straight, bisexual and gay are equal.

In contrast those who are low cognitive, their prejudices are more of groups. More prejudice is to distinguish you and me. Giving positive prejudice to objects that are in the same group and giving negative prejudice to groups that are different with themselves. Who is in the different groups? The answer is obviously, bisexual, gay, lesbian transgender, asexual and other groups.
Prejudice is a real existence. The time we construct our worldview, the prejudice is growing up little by little. From the perspective of social psychology, the existence of prejudice makes it easier for people to make up groups. No matter what your group is please don’t hurt anyone with your prejudice.

Sexual orientation is hardly to change, but it will flow.

A person is attracted by the same sex or the opposite sex is not immutable. But will change over time – this is usually determined by the environment at that time. This phenomenon is called sexual fluidity. For example, if a heterosexual can only get along with same sex people, and then they may feel that the sexual attraction and emotional temptation from the same sex friends has increased. As with other social traits, sexual preference, attitudes, behavior and identity are some extent variable.

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The difference between sexuality fluidity and bisexuality.
Sexual fluidity can occur on absolute heterosexual or gay, but this only represents one time sexual response. For example, you like tender girls. But you will suddenly find that a girl who can stimulate you in a fresh way of excitement. You may love the both two girls.

Although some absolute heterosexuals have sex with same sex people, but do not represent they are bisexuals. This only shows that they have sexual fluidity.

In some of the cases studied, some women who were essentially heterosexual found that they fall in love with a particular woman. But they still claimed to be straight. It does not mean that these women are bisexual. They are only obsessed with an individual. And this individual happens to be same sex by chance.

Emotional connection and sexual desire are fundamentally different. A person can fall in love without sexual desire.

Male and Female.
If you study the data, you will find that the female group is more likely to sexual fluidity than male group. For example, lesbian are more likely to have sexual relations with opposite sexual than gay. Of course, this is only the conclusion of statistics. Cannot defined all man and woman. There are many men and women who do not show signs of sexual fluidity.

There have been a number of studies devoted male sexuality, including a study in 2016. Investigated men’s sexual experiences over the past 12 months. The results show that the man who had sex with homosexuality, straight is more than gay. And almost no one was identified as bisexual. This may be another example of male sexuality fluidity.

Could bisexuality be corrected?

Could bisexuality be corrected?” there always have “good” people who are worried about this question.

My question is “Could straight be corrected?” Why does straight need to be corrected? maybe you will asked me. “Because straight is different from us.”  Is this answer justified?

There is gay where there is straight. Both gay and straight are intrinsic. So why don’t we correct straight first!

The psychological roots of gay & bisexual need to be corrected is: First, as “most people” thought, we are born to give the “dissidents” in the group a tag type. The public is not understanding enough to gay & bisexual. And they are easily marked the label “promiscuity, AIDS” by the mass media.

The idea above has finished analyze, let’s discuss what measures have done to correct gay & bisexual.

Did anyone try to correct gay & bisexual? Of course, the so-called “treatment” usually takes the behavioral approach. One of my bisexual friend told me that once he had a period of doubt about his sexual orientation. He decided to correct it because he wanted to figure himself out: “I am male first and then I am bisexual”. With the spirit of being responsible for himself, he accepted a period of the so-called “correction”.

The way of correct is shows him some pictures. The theme of these pictures are male and female. At the same time there are instruments attached to his body. Once he have a physical response to the male pictures, he applied an electric shock. “After having several treatment, I am not only don’t interested in men, but also don’t interested in human.” He said.

 

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Many countries claim that gay & bisexual are not any kind of mental illness, mental disorders or emotional problems. Any external means attempt to change the behavior of human nature will cause great harm to people’s physical and mental. Whether it is gay & bisexual or straight.

Why so many people don’t like bisexual?

More or less we can meet gay, bisexual in our life. Maybe our friends, maybe neighbors. Some people always show disdain eyes to gay & bisexual when they meet them. Even they are stranger. The gay & bisexual have nothing to do with him/her. Who make it happen? Why this situation don’t change for a long time?

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People don’t like gay but they more dislike bisexual. In their eyes, gay just like the same sexual people. They have no bad influence to other people. But what does bisexual did? Looking for date when they have a partner. Blow hot and cold between male and female. This is most people impression of bisexual. Maybe I summarize is not comprehensive enough. It’s just an example of people’s opinion to bisexual.

For the moment, I don’t discuss it. Let’s talk about the live situation of bisexual. Bisexual is a very small group for all people. Because of the sexual characteristic, many bisexuals will identify themselves at adult. During the time bisexual identify themselves, they will try to date with both same sexual and opposite sexual. Then find out with sexual they prefer. A straight people will have several love experience to find the true love. Bisexual need more experience to find the true love. At first they must identify the sexual orientation. Some bisexual can easy to identify themselves. Love female or male sometimes become a big trouble to bisexual. So they pretend to straight or gay to date with different people. Just for fun or looking for who they are.

Does it wrong? I don’t think so. Bisexual cannot control their feelings of love. In fact, no one could before they make sure fall in love with someone. This is reason why there are so many single people in the world. Many bisexual have a happiness life when they make up their mind to married with someone. Bisexual have no difference with others. You should pack up your disdain eyes.