Have you ever thought that you or your family members are bisexual, gay? My answer is no, I didn’t think about this. But it was happened in my life. My sister is lesbian.
I’m straight, but I don’t reject bisexual or gay/lesbian at all. I knew she is lesbian since 3 years ago. I love my sister very much and I want she can have a happiness life. But if she is a lesbian, it becomes harder.
At first, our parents could hardly to accept it. They all love her very much. Our parents don’t expect my sister have a rich life but just want she lives as a normal girl. But things go contrary to their wishes. She is born to special. We find it out years later. It do not affect that my sister become an excellent daughter. She love our parents very much and very optimistic. She always said to me “it’s nothing to be a lesbian”.
I saw her “girlfriends” several times. They are all nice girl, beautiful and smart. I am willing to stay with them. My sister call their love “Platonic Love”. She have a clear plan to her future. At first, graduate from university. Second, looking for a job to make some money. Third, live with her “girlfriends”. It sound very easy, does it?
My sister is lucky, because she meet few “girlfriends” at school. It saves her a lot of time to looking for another lesbian. They are coming from different places. They get together because they have the same dreams. I knew LGBT groups from my sister and I searched much information on internet. So I knew the situation of LGBT groups very much even if I’m not belong to LGBT. Many youths too impatient to wait to come out as bisexual or gay/lesbian. Because it sound very cool, I think so. Most of them could be called “Bi-curious, Gay/Lesbian-curious” my sister said. It’s doesn’t difficult to resolution it. They can hardly to keeps a relationship for a long time. Generally, they will finish a relationship in 1-3 months. It make people feel that bisexual, lesbian/gay are disloyal to a relationship.
There are a lot of lesbian/gay, bisexual people like my sister in the world. I don’t know how does my parents will deal with the problem? It is hardly to think about. But there is a rule between families; that is “Love can defeat anything”.