Sexual orientation is hardly to change, but it will flow.

A person is attracted by the same sex or the opposite sex is not immutable. But will change over time – this is usually determined by the environment at that time. This phenomenon is called sexual fluidity. For example, if a heterosexual can only get along with same sex people, and then they may feel that the sexual attraction and emotional temptation from the same sex friends has increased. As with other social traits, sexual preference, attitudes, behavior and identity are some extent variable.

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The difference between sexuality fluidity and bisexuality.
Sexual fluidity can occur on absolute heterosexual or gay, but this only represents one time sexual response. For example, you like tender girls. But you will suddenly find that a girl who can stimulate you in a fresh way of excitement. You may love the both two girls.

Although some absolute heterosexuals have sex with same sex people, but do not represent they are bisexuals. This only shows that they have sexual fluidity.

In some of the cases studied, some women who were essentially heterosexual found that they fall in love with a particular woman. But they still claimed to be straight. It does not mean that these women are bisexual. They are only obsessed with an individual. And this individual happens to be same sex by chance.

Emotional connection and sexual desire are fundamentally different. A person can fall in love without sexual desire.

Male and Female.
If you study the data, you will find that the female group is more likely to sexual fluidity than male group. For example, lesbian are more likely to have sexual relations with opposite sexual than gay. Of course, this is only the conclusion of statistics. Cannot defined all man and woman. There are many men and women who do not show signs of sexual fluidity.

There have been a number of studies devoted male sexuality, including a study in 2016. Investigated men’s sexual experiences over the past 12 months. The results show that the man who had sex with homosexuality, straight is more than gay. And almost no one was identified as bisexual. This may be another example of male sexuality fluidity.

What’s the feeling when your buddy is bisexual!

I asked him before write the article “may I mention you in the article?”

He said “what’s the title?”

Me “what’s the feeling when have a bisexual buddy

Him “hahahahahahaha I like it”

My bisexual friend is little special, he said that he like male more than female. So I could regard him as a gay. I know that is not quite accurate. However, I will follow him. He said “please call me Mr.B”

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What is the difference of the life when you have a gay buddy?

1. If you are single, he have half responsibility.
Because of Mr.B is not sissy(Sissy≠Gay, important), so that many people think that we are couple. I even couldn’t explain it.

2. Must learn the difference between “Straight” and “Mr.B”.
Because of I almost don’t know how to talk with “straight”. Often cause all sorts of unnecessary misunderstanding. I can talk anything with Mr.B. In fact, I don’t know the limit of the topic between straight woman and man.

3. Always have different idea.
Perhaps I am affected by the status of Mr.B in the social. I am prefer to study out the results. Always treat the result that obtained by feeling with query and criticize. Especially when people around think that a common thing must happen. My head will flashed “Why?” “Why have to happened”. Perhaps another state of existence is reasonable? Like Mr.B, like bisexual, like gay, not everyone is “straight”.

Why does Mr.B choose not come out?

We are classmate in the whole study life. Someday he told me that he is bisexual but prefer man. I asked “why talk to me?” Mr.B said: ” I think I can tell you ”
At that time I don’t know what homosexuality means. Don’t know how was homosexuality be treated by the community. Just think that a male classmate could also like boy.

Many years later, I think the fact have no difference with my original idea. But the people who can accept gay less than our image. However, there are no rules can protect gay and bisexual when they were discriminated.

Mr.B will not come out easily. Also will not tell others his sexual orientation. At least, he is looks like a straight man.

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What Mr.B will do next?

The evaluation of gay relationships is related to the reason what they consider to be gay. Another words, if they think that gay is innate, they will be more inclined to accept.
Researches show that the more people contact to gay&lesbian, the more they tend to praise them. So that do not easily judge one thing if you don’t understand it. Follow your heart but not others’ words.

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Once in a shopping mall, a gay couple walk on our side hand in hand. Mr.B was very excited but lowered his voice and cheering. “Gay couple are holding hands together!
I looked his face, there is exciting and envious. This should be the happiness in his mind.

7 benefits for bisexual woman to have sex! (Part Two)

tumblr_inline_mzs8wj5OyR1sq7nkaAppropriate sex life could reduce the pressure of life. And it’s important for bisexual women’s health. It not only could make you looks like more young and dynamic, but also good sex life even have help to keep slim. It really a “surprise answer” for women. Try to thinking that you are a bisexual woman and you just need to have appropriate sex. Then your life will become wonderful. Sometimes the life become terrible don’t means you make any mistake. Maybe you just need a bisexual date.

4. Reduce premenstrual syndrome.
In the 5-7 days before menstruation, the blood flow into the pelvis increased. It will cause swelling and cramps, leading to abdominal distension or abdominal pain. The muscle contraction movement during have sex can promote the blood out of the pelvic region and join the blood circulation. The process reduce pelvic pressure, thereby reducing abdominal discomfort. Do you want try this? Find your matches and have nice bisexual dates.

5. Have sex could destroy the pressure, relieve tension.
In the process of sex, the human hormones is released so that we cannot feel the pressure. The reaction can even be maintained for several hours. Until the level of hormones returns to the normal level of the entire body system. I think this is the reason why some football stars have sex in the changing room. It’s more useful than cordial. Maybe you need a perfect date to reduce the pressure instead of wine and cry.

6. Burning calories, helpful to keep slim.
A warm kiss burns twelve calories, and ten minutes of caressing can burn fifty calories. Even if the most slow sex, can burn two hundred calories per hour. Correspondingly, if you are very warm and excited in this process, it’s possible to burning five or six hundred calories. I think it must be a good reason for bisexual woman to seeking your partner.

7. Have sex can extend woman’s life.
The people have a happy marriage will have longer life. And the happy marriage have a great relationship with sexual life. Regardless of physical or psychological, have sex is good for healthy. If you are tired of the sex style. Try to find your perfect bisexual date.

7 benefits for bisexual woman to have sex!

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Appropriate sex life could reduce the pressure of life. And it’s important for bisexual women’s health. It not only could make you looks like more young and dynamic, but also good sex life even have help to keep slim. It really a “surprise answer” for women. Try to thinking that you are a bisexual woman and you just need to have appropriate sex. Then your life will become wonderful. Sometimes the life become terrible don’t means you make any mistake. Maybe you just need a bisexual date.

1. Eliminate insomnia
Everyone is eager to have a deep, sweet sleep, but a variety of causes of insomnia. They often troubled us. Especially women, they are more likely to insomnia.

This situation can be solved by experiencing a harmonious sex life. The body began to relax, the muscles are also stretch. You can easy to fall asleep. The more happiness sex life the more easily fall asleep. If you are bisexual single for a long time, I think you must have your way to find your match. Anyway, try the bisexual site. It could help you to find perfect sex life.

2. It’s helpful to reduce the incidence of heart disease.
Having sex could make pelvis, limbs, joints, muscles, spine more activities, promote blood circulation, enhance heart function and vital capacity. People who have a harmonious sex life have a risk of heart disease that is at least 10% less risky than sexually disabled people. Try to join our bisexual date if you are lonely bisexual.

3. Have helpful of female vaginal disinfection.
Experiments show that semen has a kind of antibacterial substance—semen plasmin. It could kill staphylococcus, streptococcus, pneumococcus and other pathogens. So it can protect female genitalia from microbial invasion. Long-term no sex life will make women more susceptible to vaginitis, endometritis and other diseases. No matter lesbian, bisexual woman, straight woman they all need health and high-quality sex life.

                                                                                                                             To be continued……

Bisexual, gay, lesbian need what?

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Bisexual don’t need anything. Bisexual could live better without others disturb.

 

I means bisexual live in the social, they don’t need anything else. Just need all people lose sight of what is bisexual? No one care about bisexual don’t means to forget. It means accept. All people accept bisexual, then they begin getting used to the word “bisexual”. Finally, nobody care about the news someone comes out. This is what bisexual really need.

 

But, what is the fact? Not only bisexual, but also gay & lesbian suffered too much attention. Especially the celebrity, there is no more quiet life once they come out. The endless exposure instead of it. Price of love seems to be too heavy. Lucky, we have nothing but brave heart. But bisexual received so much attention that the news are everywhere. No one can escape. Celebrity with famous to the world once they comes out. Normal will famous to the social or small town they lives. Always be the focus of discus.

 

In other words, more attention bring more discus, more discus bring more thought, more thought bring more free. But there a lack of socials of bisexual, gay & lesbian. Most of them choose to join private organizations. Because there is no official organizations for them to rely on. Social need more time to fuse the newfangled. Although, bisexual, gay & lesbian are not newfangled. They have appeared in the distant era.

 

But in the past, the bisexual, gay & lesbian are living in the darkness. They will be put to death once been found to be gay, bisexual & lesbian. Until a new word “human right” was mentioned. The people all around the world begin to release the heart. Begin to come out. Someone choose to come out do means they want to make their mark. They just want to encourage other gay, bisexual. Everyone could come out. Real freedom has always been hard won. It’s a long process. Look, you can see the article on the internet, you just need a bit of help and brave. Because the social and community were built for you and the bisexual & gay date sites have prepared for a long time.

Why so many people don’t like bisexual?

More or less we can meet gay, bisexual in our life. Maybe our friends, maybe neighbors. Some people always show disdain eyes to gay & bisexual when they meet them. Even they are stranger. The gay & bisexual have nothing to do with him/her. Who make it happen? Why this situation don’t change for a long time?

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People don’t like gay but they more dislike bisexual. In their eyes, gay just like the same sexual people. They have no bad influence to other people. But what does bisexual did? Looking for date when they have a partner. Blow hot and cold between male and female. This is most people impression of bisexual. Maybe I summarize is not comprehensive enough. It’s just an example of people’s opinion to bisexual.

For the moment, I don’t discuss it. Let’s talk about the live situation of bisexual. Bisexual is a very small group for all people. Because of the sexual characteristic, many bisexuals will identify themselves at adult. During the time bisexual identify themselves, they will try to date with both same sexual and opposite sexual. Then find out with sexual they prefer. A straight people will have several love experience to find the true love. Bisexual need more experience to find the true love. At first they must identify the sexual orientation. Some bisexual can easy to identify themselves. Love female or male sometimes become a big trouble to bisexual. So they pretend to straight or gay to date with different people. Just for fun or looking for who they are.

Does it wrong? I don’t think so. Bisexual cannot control their feelings of love. In fact, no one could before they make sure fall in love with someone. This is reason why there are so many single people in the world. Many bisexual have a happiness life when they make up their mind to married with someone. Bisexual have no difference with others. You should pack up your disdain eyes.

Does bisexual need regular sex partners?

This is a question for bisexual? If you are bisexual, you can ask yourself. I think different people must have different idea.

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I think many bisexuals have tried to married with straight. Few bisexuals have the courage to married with gay or build a threesome family. We live on the earth. The living environment is very important for us. Not only the physics environment, but also the emotion environment. I have to say that sometimes we have to compromise.

Maybe you are freedom fighter, you will fighter for free love. I just want to say, I’m not. I’m prefer to be a guardian. Guard what? My family, friends and the people I love. So, you will have the question, who can heart them? No body except me. Beyond doubt, my family and friends are loving me without additional conditions. The reason why I talk about that I want to be a guardian is that I also love them too. As everyone knows, both gay and bisexual can hardly been accepted by straight. There are so much reasons. We don’t talk about it in this article. We only talk about the result be caused by the fact.

If you are single bisexual & gay and you can also ignore the sight of others, you can chase the dream of build a bisexual and gay family. In fact, many bisexual and gay choose to do this. Then adopt a child. But there are no researches show that the child will not be affected by their gay & bisexual parents. At least, this action is one kind of test. Within the sphere permitted by law I think it is worth to have a try.

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But if you not single and you have a very happiness family, it’s really difficult for you to come out. There are huge pressure from family and social. Few lucky guys could get the support of family. There are two choices for left gay & bisexual. The one is come out in spite of everything. Another way is hide their identities. But lies always been find out someday. The truth is very cruel. But I refuse to accept it.

I couldn’t live a compromise life. I’m not a free fighter, also don’t yield to the social pressure. I understand who I am. I want the serious relationship with a bisexual or gay. I have date with many people on the bisexual date site. We live in the same city. But we have independent living. I don’t need to come out. Have no necessary to fight with anyone. What I should do is focus on the people who want date with me. I think this is the best life to me.

Return to theme, I think bisexual don’t need to have regular sex partner. But bisexual need regular date. We live in the same city. But we have independent living.

To Be A Brave Bisexual.

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Yesterday I watch a movie named (127 hours). The movie describe a journey of an American boy. I have forgot his name. But I remembered what he did in the journey.

The first day, he drive his car go into the mountain alone. In fact, the music with him. He try to across the canyon. But he meet two beautiful girls on the way. They are lost that time. He talk with the two girls and to be the guide of them. This should be a nice story, maybe they can go back to the small town and have a threesome. But he decide to go on his trip. It’s like there are something waiting for him for a long time, and want to see him right now. So he leaves in hurry.

He encountered an accident after leaving for few hours. His right hand get stuck by a big stone when he try to go down the bottom of the canyon. This must be a disaster for him — Stay at the bottom of the canyon alone. Don’t have too much food. A bottle of water. A knife of poor quality. A Camera. An MP3. A flashlight with not enough electric quantity. So, what should you do to save yourselves? It’s very cold in the bottom of canyon at night. Only 15 minutes can in the sun one day.

You have no ideal? So is the protagonist. He begin to recall his life. Every one of the family come out in his mind one by one. He have a deep sleep because of the tired. He think of his girlfriend. For me, maybe I will miss both my girlfriend and boyfriend in that situation. Gay, bisexual, straight? I think no matter what the sex orientation you are. You will think of the people you miss most. Maybe your first love. Maybe the one have leaved you. May be the one you haven’t to confession.  Just like the protagonist, a beautiful girl comes out in his mind. In a car full of nude girl and boy. It must be a party that most suitable for bisexual. There is no girl or boy, just you and me and him/her.

Not only family and girlfriend. He begin to notice the bird in the sky. Everyone in his life is recall by him. But no one can really stand before him. He begin to regret didn’t cell back to mom, didn’t detention his girlfriend in time, couldn’t join the wedding of his sister in the future. I think we will think a lot of things when we will die or we know that we are dead. But what we think most is things we feel regret. Gay regret that didn’t come out early. The bisexual regret didn’t have a threesome of join a bisexual party before married. Straight regret gave up someone.

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He has been stuck in the bottom of the canyon three days. No water left, only the piss. It must have a terrible taste. It seems that there is only one way to get away from the canyon. Cut off the right hand! Yes, he did. I don’t know the story after that. I turn off the movie. I think I had found something important.

As a bisexual, I must have a threesome or nice date together with many bisexuals. I don’t want that I have nothing to recall when I get into the trouble. If you have a partner, cherish him/her. If you don’t have, find one right now. Have no ideal? Try here bisexualfun.net. Bisexual, gay, bi-curious all you can find good partner and date here. If you really want! Do the things you really want do, stop to recall the past. Don’t wait until you cannot finish it.