Some bisexual will not come out as bisexual, they choose to live a special life. But they also keep a bisexual relationship with bisexual friends or partners. May this is one kind of life style. Your spirit of exploration will not touch your life and family, you also could get fun with bisexual.
I mention this to say you’re not alone. You’re not alone in being closeted, and when you decide to come out, there is a vibrant bisexual community waiting for you. You could try the things you interested in. Even something you never heard or imagined.
So for those of you struggling with coming out as bisexual, here’s my advice:
Don’t worry about your bisexual identity.
Your identity can and most likely will change over the course of your life. You’re no longer stuck with one label. I, for one, identify as bisexual, pansexual, and queer. I’ve met many women who identify as lesbian even though they date men. The power in labels is that they allow you to become a part of a community. So while labels are daunting, they’re not permanent. Don’t feel that you have to commit to anything forever.
Bisexual community is global and keep developing.
There is a bi community, and when you come out as bisexual, you will meet more bi people. When I was in college, I didn’t know a single bisexual man, but after graduating and coming out as bisexual, I met so many bi guys. We’re everywhere. You just don’t know it because most people assume that a man dating another man is gay, and a man dating a woman is straight. But just like you, they may indeed be bisexual.
Don’t feel that you must come out to do something.
When someone feel like to dating with you, they won’t care about you are straight, gay or bisexual. What they care about is “do you want dating with me”. If you are a bi-men but register as straight on a bisexual dating site. A young couple hookup with you “do you want a date with us, we are Bi”. You just need to say “Yes” or “No”. No matter what’s your identity, your choice won’t lie. This is the reason why you need free your spirit. In fact, people have a high acceptance to bisexual group. Threesome dating is not the exclusive to bisexual, many straight couple have experienced a threesome dating. Exploring threesome dating is full of fun. Also many couples try the swinger dating. If you have an open-minded, your life will become wonderful.
So say it like you mean it. Say it like you’re positive. Also, say it in a way that’s not a big deal. You don’t need to say, “I have something important I need to tell you.” You don’t have cancer. You don’t want people to treat you like you do have cancer. You just like multiple genders. The less of a deal you make it, the less of a deal it becomes.