My plan about my future bisexual life.

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I’m a bisexual lives in a small town. 22 years old and nothing special. I don’t want to come out. My life is perfect now. I am working in a flower market. My boss is a very kind old man. Also I read a lot of news about bisexual. I have ever searched many articles about bisexual.

Although my life is clam, I’m a young man. Just the same as other youth, I like hip-pop, I like extreme sports, also I like beautiful girl. One more, I like handsome boy too. I never told anyone that I am bisexual. Even my parents and my best friends don’t know it. It’s a secret belong to me. There are several gay groups in our small town and the neighbor towns. I never join the party of them. It’s nothing about the sexual orientation. As I know, many straight guys ever joined the party several times. I heard that they have threesome date sometimes. I swear I really want to join them. But there are many works to do every day. I’m too tired to go out the room, let alone join a party.

I have a plan, I joined a bisexual date site at 19 years old. I meet a bisexual girl there. We are the same age. And she lives 50 miles away. Every week I would try to meet her. She is very beautiful. When I save enough money to buy the ring, I will make her a proposal. My dream will come true soon.

We had discussed our future life. At first, we don’t prepare to have a baby before 30. And then we will enjoy our real bisexual life. We would like to join different kinds of date. Seeking a gay/bisexual/lesbian to join us. It seems very exciting. If we looking for a good men or women, we will live together. If the mind cannot come true, we will have several babies and enjoy happiness life. When we are old lay on the chairs together and recall our young age.

Whether gay can date with bisexual or straight?

As we know heterosexual only date with heterosexual is as a general rule. Gay’s date rule is as same as straight, and they could only date with gay. Do you agree with this view?

If there is a general rule, there usually have some special rules. Many straights are interested in gay’s date. But it doesn’t means they are bisexual. It’s a kind of curious just like bi-curious. They want to join a gay’s date or bisexual’s date, 3some date. Some research studies show that many heterosexuals would like to date with same sex sometimes. For these heterosexuals, it’s really a difference sexual experience.

Why gays are willing to date with heterosexuals? They have no experience of gay’s date. They even don’t know what to do while join the date. However it is precisely that the reason why they can attract gay is they have no experience. No experience means curious, interesting, so that both sides could feel that they find a new land. They could bring exciting feeling to each other. If you are bored to the normal life and want have a date with gay or lesbian, you can try it. But you’d better know what you’ll never do.

Bisexual is an amazing sexual orientation. The characters of bisexual make it have many kind of choices. But bisexual also have sexual tendency. In fact everyone sexual orientation is flowed. One side is male and another side is female. Bisexual’s sexual orientation close to the middle point. In most cases bisexual will choose a sexual orientation and have a relationship. They may be gay, lesbian or heterosexual in this situation. So that bisexual is more likely to date with straight people. A few bisexuals couldn’t identify their sexual orientation clear, or just like this feeling that can love both male and female. Because in their eyes, male and female are one kind of sexual orientation.

Does it possible that three sexual orientation people could date together? Of cause, yes! A bisexual could date with straight or gay. If you would like to have a threesome date, you may experience a three sexual orientation date. But be careful of whom you will date with. And make sure you can protect yourself.

Why do many bisexual & gay relationship couldn’t last a long time? (Part Two)

At last article, we discussed that why so many bisexual & gay relationship couldn’t last a long time? Does it make you despair? Do we have no solution?

The situation looks like desperate. It seems that any bisexual & gay relationship will turn to insipid, baldness, tasteless as time goes on. However, we could take the initiative to make the relationship have interesting.

Come out of the “comfort zone” of the relationship at first.
Many couples turn the love to some kind of habit in a relationship. There are many fixed things in daily life. Watch movie at weekend, have a good dinner on day of commemoration. The restaurant is fixed. The line is fixed. Even the way of kiss, hug are fixed model. Every time you repetitive the same things day in and day out. Do you think it’s a stable life? The stable life may destroy the surprise and accident. At the same time it destroy the fun of life.

Try to appeal to your partner every day.
When you live together for a long time, have not make trouble to your partner is a grace for him/her. Do you once have the thought? You should know that you can live together as gay or bisexual couple is really an amazing thing. So don’t try to destroy anything. Try to build good relationship. A cup of tea, a carefully prepare dinner is very simple thing but make your partner feel been loved. The more you do to your partner you will get more happiness I think.

Improve your “sex attraction” to your gay & bisexual partner.
Everyone have “sexual desire”. This is the basic requirement of a human. But the “sexual desire” is keeping reduce as time pass by. It’s important for gay & bisexual couples to think that how to keep your “sex attraction” to your partner. Keep a good image always a good idea. Love isn’t continual; it’s make up with countless “heart beat fast” moment and daily chores. The reason way many gay & bisexual couple feel bored to the relationship is that they could only feel the daily chores. But cannot feel the “heart beat fast” moment. This is what the love really need.

No matter you are single or in a relationship. I think your life need some “heart bet fast” moment. Try to find the one who can give you this feeling. Want have some fun with bisexual, want have a relationship with gay, want find a gay & bisexual to chat with; come to onlybidating.com is a good idea.

Be a LGBT dancer who dancing in a storm.

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I love you, but there is a world between us.
I’m gay but you are straight.
I cannot own you in this life.
But you have owned my heart.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I’m bisexual but you are straight.
I love you, but you don’t trust me.
At the moment I choose you, you have been my everything.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I’m lesbian but you are straight.
You said that you want a broad chest, but I only have emaciated shoulder.
The day when you leaved, I cried at home.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I cannot tell you I’m transgender.
I don’t want you look down upon me.
It’s enough for me could see you every day.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
There are someone build the world but not you and me.
I want to break out the world.
But I don’t have enough ability.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I want to cross it.
But I cannot.
They said heterosexual identify is the traffic permit.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I took heart of grace came out.
I wish you can understand me.
But I heared the word “stupid”.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
I meet someone at a LGBT date site.
He/she have same situation with me.
A storm is approaching, there have no place for us to elude.

We take hands of each other.
So that we will not wander off in the storm.
Let’s dance, he/she said.
We begin to move our feet.

I love you, but there is a world between us.
The world named “discriminate and prejudice”.
It’s too strong to defeat it.
But if we have a strong heart, the storm could be a background of our stage.
Let’s dance for all LGBT, in the storm that the world give us.

As a gay or bisexual have you been turned down?

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Have you ever showed your love to somebody or you never showed you love to anyone? Because you are afraid to failure. Do you think that as a “loser” you even shouldn’t exist? Have you ever been treated as air? Let’s change the question. Which one you prefer been treated as air or stranger?

Everyone will experience some failures. These kind of failures make us very sensitive to the things and people around us. We could notice every tiny act of others. There are so many broken wings of angels. How can we save the angels or ourselves?

Sometimes a little feedback could cure all the harm.
If someone crash on you but you doesn’t like her/him, tell them directly. Don’t treat them as air. At least, they could keep the self-esteem. Some gays or bisexuals may face the problem many times. No matter you are gay, bisexual or heterosexual, you may be excellent or normal. As an excellent gay or bisexual you may be loved by some heterosexuals. So they fall in love with you. How to refuse them but don’t hurt them is an important things. We call it kindness feedback.

Because when you fall in love with somebody, you will face the same situation. It’s difficult for a gay & bisexual to come out. Find a good gay & bisexual partner is also difficult. No one could promise that you will success. Have you ever been turned down? What’s your mind at that moment?

The LGBT’s life is very hard. Doesn’t mean they have a poor life quality. Opposite, most of them have a happiness life. But how to seek a satisfied partner is really hard. We can turn down others and could be turned down too. The more kindnesses we give to others the more courage we will get to looking for love.

How could he be gay!

Someone said that “Love is the attitude of one person to another, but not the response of one organ to another”. I think the sentence have annotated what is actually gay. But it’s really difficult to make everyone agree with it.

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Gay groups were been misunderstanding past and present. There is always a secret in their life. How about the future? Nobody knows. A famous bisexual people said that many people ask me “whether I should come out?” He usually tried to stop them at that time. “Because not everyone could face so much troubles with attic faith”. He said. In fact, he wish more and more gay and bisexual come out, so that there is no one need to come out.

There is no one want to be gay or bisexual. If there is a choice, no one will choose to be a different person. And live a difficult life than others. To be gay, bisexual or heterosexual is not a multiple choice. It’s that we born to be. Can you choose to be a male or female when you be born?

Homosexual and bisexual is not monster, they just happen fall in love with someone have same sex. Yes, many people cannot understand homosexual and bisexual. Did you have tried to understand them? There is no rule said that we must understand homosexual and bisexual, at least try to know them and understand them.

We all ordinary people on the earth. When we judge a person’s life, what he did is more important than who he was and his sexual orientation.

Do gay and bisexual sites worth to sign up?

As time goes on, many kinds of web site come out in our life.

There is Uber when you need to go out but don’t want to drive. There is online supermarket when you want to buy some food. Many services could be asked others to do for you. But however would you like to ask someone love your partner for you?

Obvious, the answer is no for most of people. Although living standards have been improving, but what make us feel more and more lonely? More and more people like traveling and sporting. I think most of them are trying to relax themselves. Because working under great pressure make them feel tired. But does it work? Walking alone, drinking alone, sleeping alone make someone going crazy. Especially, there are few LGBT communities in the city. Few communities couldn’t help all gay and bisexual people.

Many young bisexuals and gays are active in all kinds of bar and party. Having date every day. Then they tell the world that the life of gay and bisexual is very good. It seems that they join a utopia without annoyance. But when they stop, there is only void left beside. What is life? Everyone have different answer. I think at least there must have love in life, not just fun.

Bisexual and gay date site couldn’t make sure to find love for you. But it’s really a shortcut. Do gay and bisexual sites worth to sign up? I think the answer is yes. You can receive noticed at everywhere. They are all around you just like you have many gays and bisexuals neighbors. What you need do is picking out the one, two, three people…… you like. LGBT is absolutely a big group. All the hiding is just for better protection.

 

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Someone is shame to chat up others. But many gay and bisexual people don’t know where to chat up other gays and bisexuals. I think it’s the different between a straight and gay. Love is a right for human. No matter where you are and who you are. If you don’t say what you like to eat, the best cook can’t cooking what you love.

Desire make people become stronger. Love make people unstoppable. Begin from a date, fall in love at a walking under sunset. Choose your favorite bisexual and gay date site and sign up!

Could bisexuality be corrected?

Could bisexuality be corrected?” there always have “good” people who are worried about this question.

My question is “Could straight be corrected?” Why does straight need to be corrected? maybe you will asked me. “Because straight is different from us.”  Is this answer justified?

There is gay where there is straight. Both gay and straight are intrinsic. So why don’t we correct straight first!

The psychological roots of gay & bisexual need to be corrected is: First, as “most people” thought, we are born to give the “dissidents” in the group a tag type. The public is not understanding enough to gay & bisexual. And they are easily marked the label “promiscuity, AIDS” by the mass media.

The idea above has finished analyze, let’s discuss what measures have done to correct gay & bisexual.

Did anyone try to correct gay & bisexual? Of course, the so-called “treatment” usually takes the behavioral approach. One of my bisexual friend told me that once he had a period of doubt about his sexual orientation. He decided to correct it because he wanted to figure himself out: “I am male first and then I am bisexual”. With the spirit of being responsible for himself, he accepted a period of the so-called “correction”.

The way of correct is shows him some pictures. The theme of these pictures are male and female. At the same time there are instruments attached to his body. Once he have a physical response to the male pictures, he applied an electric shock. “After having several treatment, I am not only don’t interested in men, but also don’t interested in human.” He said.

 

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Many countries claim that gay & bisexual are not any kind of mental illness, mental disorders or emotional problems. Any external means attempt to change the behavior of human nature will cause great harm to people’s physical and mental. Whether it is gay & bisexual or straight.

Some tips for bisexual that have bad habit when have sex.

In daily life and date, more and more bisexual people find out their sexuality are falling. Have a bad effect on the orgasm’s coming. It has a very direct relationship with the habits. So what is the worst sex habit?

Bad habit 1: Touch your partner or lover without washing hands.

 

Needless to say, everyone knows it’s bad. However, sometimes driven by the desire to forget to clean first. Especially the newly married lovers and new date partners. They often have sex improvised. But be aware that the sensitive parts of the body are also very sensitive to bacteria. If you do not pay attention to health, bacteria will take advantage of vaginal infections, pelvic inflammatory disease and so on. This is why so many bisexuals afraid to looking for match on the date site. Sometimes the one harmed you is not the date, it’s just a habit.
Tips: Clean your hand is the basic requirement if you have no time to take a bath.

Bad habit 2: Take emergency contraception frequently.

 

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Young greedy couple want the best pleasure, don’t use condoms. So the woman will take emergency contraceptives to avoid unwanted pregnancies. However, there is no one medicine could ensure safety. Medication occasionally is acceptable, but if you do it frequent, it is a great damage to woman’s body. Long-term use will be drug resistance, could not achieve the role of contraception. This also a tips for bisexual woman who want have a date with someone meet on the date site. Self-protection is one kind of status. Keep this status moment by moment you will have a wonderful life. And enjoy any kind of date.
Tips: If you really want have sex without using condoms, then you’d better eat the contraceptives, you can also take an injection to contraception. According to the effects it can be divided into weeks, month or half year. For couples, condom is the best choice.

Bad habit3:Drink cold drinks immediately after having sex.

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Sweat a lot after having sex, you suddenly want to drink water. Partner give you a bottle of water from freezer immediately. The result is: you’ll feel uncomfortable next day. Drink cold drinks after having sex not only comes easily to stomach trouble, but also it is harm for spread body.
Tips: If you love him/her, prepare some warm water of other hot drinks.

Good life is come from handing of details. Notice the tips, it’s useful in daily life and the new date.

Bi woman could do Four things to care themselves after having sex.

There are many benefits for the bi people that having sex in a stable frequency. But no matter you have married or single that have different partners every day. Remember to do these things will have a good effect on your body.

Drink a cup of water at 40℃.

 

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Have not think about it? When you have a bisexual dating with a perfect partner, your spirit will still keep exciting. In the process of have sex not only your emotion will go to the extreme, but also your digestive system followed the excitement. Gastrointestinal blood vessels are in an expanded state. This time, it is best to drink a glass of warm water about 40℃. Relieve gastrointestinal tension, repair gastrointestinal mucosa.

Stretching the uterus.

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After sexing, uterus is also in an excited state which is the best time to stretch the uterus. Not only could maintenance the uterus, but also could enhance sexuality. And the method is very simple, separate knees, kneeling on the bed naturally. Then try to straighten the waist and bend forward, so that the face and chest are as close as possible to the bed. Try to feel the feeling that uterus stretch with body.

Shower with alternation hot and cold water.

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Many people were like to take a bath right now after having sex. You can choose shower with alternation hot and cold water for 5 minutes. It will bring you unexpected benefits. Include stimulate the new cells and enhance sexual performance.

Enjoy sunbathing

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If your date time during daytime, then compart to sleep, it is recommended that to enjoy the sun outdoors. Energy from nature, not only to activate your body’s immune cells, but also make your sympathetic nerve and parasympathetic more coordinated. Make your mood as good as your body. Do you remember all the things? If you want to know all the things about improve the quality of sexual life, welcome to join the bisexual dating site!