For ordinary people, bisexual is a strange word. Of cause there are many questions and confused about bisexual still have no answer. So what, have a happy life is the final purpose of a bisexual. But many misunderstandings makes bisexual’s life in trouble. Let’s discuss a part of the questions below.
There are no bisexual in the word.
Because of the sexual orientation characteristic. People rather to believe bisexual isn’t exit. This is the most pervasive view about bisexuality. Bisexual is about 2% of whole human. So that little people can meet bisexual in their life. They are very lucky. But do you know there are 9 million LGBT people in the United States and more than half identify as bisexual. Only 28% of bisexuals say that all the important people in their life know they are bisexual, compared to 77% gay men and 71% of lesbians. A lot of people cannot understand bisexual’s love. They think bisexuals are cheaters. Just some straight are curious about gay. So they named themselves bisexual. But if you are bisexual, don’t mind their words and view. Be yourself is most important thing.
Bisexual are attracted to anyone.
In people’s mind, bisexual are attracted to anyone. No matter man, woman or gay, straight. It’s like bisexual want date with anyone they meet. Oh, please. Just because someone is bisexual doesn’t mean they don’t have standards. This is the same logic that you want kiss your family, but you don’t need to kiss everybody you meet. “You can” and “you want” is different. Why so many people choose to neglect the difference between them. I will think that you are attracted to any girl if you are a straight man, do you think it is right?
All bisexuals are polyamory.
Everyone is polyamory, why all people catch bisexual. It depends on the characteristic of bisexual. They can fall in love with both boy and girl. So they are polyamory. Please, can you have sex with the one you don’t love? If you cannot. Why you choose to believe bisexual can to it? In general, we have sex with the one we love. But bisexual can have sex with both gender. The two kind of love are same. Does it?
Bisexuals are scared of commitment
I have ever hired some bisexuals said:” they cannot identify themselves when they were young”. They cannot make sure more love girl or boy. It’s a process to identify themselves. But being attracted to both genders doesn’t have anything to do with commitment. When they make sure that they love girl, boy or both gender. They can fall in love like straight. So, if they are scared of commitment have nothing to do with gender.
To the mysterious bisexual. There are too many things interesting we don’t know. If you want know more about bisexual. Contact me or comment the article.