Don’t proud to be Bisexual!

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I have read many articles in other bisexuals’ blog. And I found some strange things and topic. These is a picture in an article caught my attention. It’s a bisexual holding a sign that reads:” Proud to be bisexual”. It makes me think about words.

 

At first we should know what is the bisexual want to express? I know that some bisexuals are Low self-esteem. I think there are two points makes them feel Low self-esteem.

  1. The first point is public opinion.

Since the word “bisexual” was mentioned hundreds years ago. The debate on it has not stopped. However, the result of the controversy has a bad influence on bisexual. Because of most of the straight cannot accept bisexual. The fear of bisexuality is a new view that describes the idea that a person is not homosexual or heterosexual, or that bisexuality is contaminated. Bisexuals may also be the victims of violence in generalized homophobia. Such as the United States actor Dan Cavey said in the “weekend night scene”: “bisexuality is the person who pocks down any one’s pants, regardless of what will be met.” So that bisexual was living in the social pressure more or less. Don’t means they are not happiness. But sometime do not get enough respect.

 

  1. Cannot identify themselves.

Bisexual is different from straight and gay. They have some similarities. But bisexual is an independent group. Because of the special features. Even bisexual can hardly identify themselves sometime. The first question of some communities is “Do you identify as bisexual?” A recent survey found that almost half of bisexuals had experienced discrimination when using LGBT services. Twenty-five percent of bisexuals said they felt unwell during been service when they were bisexual. Forty-two percent of bisexuals said they had ever wanted to be disguised as heterosexual or homosexual. Others received unbearable disgust and impatience from the staff, which was heartbreaking

 

All the situation mentioned above shows bisexual is a vulnerable group. Many bisexuals want counterattack through parades and assemblies. Emphasize that proud to be a bisexual. But we should think about that if you really proud to be bisexual. You will not care about others’ opinion. Because you are same to others. When you realized you are same to anyone. You will not talk about “proud to be…..” you just should proud to be yourself.

 

So, don’t proud to be bisexual, gay, straight…. All the tabs just like your clothes. What important is who wear it.

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When i’m Gay and you are Straight!

When I was young I think that I will meet someone and get old with him/her. But when I grow up, I found that it’s just a dream which is too difficult to achieve.

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I have ever loved you so deep. The love is still in my heart and will not disappear.
I hope I will not bother you anymore.

I don’t want to make you sad.

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I have been loved you so sincere and softly.

God bless you. I wish another person will love you as much as I do.

Never mind, I will find someone like you.
I search all the address book can not find a person who can speak. Finally, I find out there is no one can talk to.

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Later, I tried to begin a new life.
Try to wear different styles of clothing.

Try to drink different flavors. Also try to have new dreams without you.

But sometimes the wind will blow down my tears.

In face, I’m very cool. You will never see my tears. Let it drop in the wind.

Follow your heart LGBTQ!!!

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When you want parents accept the fact that you are a gay. It seems that come out is the only way to success. You may think that I was born to be a gay. And I cannot change the truth. But our parents think only live as a heterosexual that we can gain happiness. If you must try to make parents understand you and sport you. It will make you very passive.

In fact, the purpose of coming out isn’t make parents accept I’m gay, but in order to give parents the opportunity to meet and learn about the real me! How can you exist in their minds, if you do not become your true self?

If you don’t respect your heart? And follow parents’ expectations to play a heterosexual. Our parents will never have the chance to see the real me in this life. Greater sorrow than between loved ones, I’m right in front of you, you can’t see the real of me. In fact, who give up the chance to show the truth in front of parents are us.96b843fd9b0cc49100b4192ec07a1692

So that coming out must happen to me and it worth for me to do. No matter if parents want to understand the real of me. Unless, I must be the one that understanding me without any additional conditions. It’s better to live in the script that parents plan for me than live the truth of myself even it’s a hard way at first.

Coming out was successful, as long as we are admitting our sexual orientation to parents!!!!!!

Coming out is our business. This is something we can decide; but if parents can understand and accept us after coming out, it’s parents’ business, they can make any decision. We are always want control the result by ruling parents’ choice.

Many times we think we can change others by tell them some truth. But in fact, they choose to change because they understand the truth. In the word the only one can decide whether or not to change, where to change, when change is the people themselves. It’s have nothing to do with the ability of us. Therefore, changing others’ mind is a mission impossible!

I wrote so many articles to tell the relationship between coming out and parents. Isn’t tells people how to do something. I want you could understand that no one can teach you what you should do.

The real life of other Bisexuals.

Do you dare not mention the things in front of family that to build the bisexual family? Fear of undermining existing happy relationship. But you are expecting to live in bisexual family in the dream everyday. These things are bothering you, but someone has perfectly solved this problem.

 A couple come from United Kingdom married for 5 years and has two sons. One day the wife asked the husband to consent one of her requirement. And he said yes. So that Ross brought Lauren to their family. When knowing they pregnancy at the same time. Ross could not help and call that “life is complete!” Pictures from left to right as Lauren, buddy and Ross20161105020455513.png

 Ross and ex-girlfriend asked her husband after reconnecting. Buddy thinks it’s cool, gladly to accepted. For a family of six, respectively from left to right: Owen, James and Lauren hold the baby Damien, Ross is holding her baby Ryan, and husband Buddy.20161105020455676.png

 Talking about this unusual combination of family, rose said: “the biggest misconception is that people often think we are threesome, but we all love each other, mutual relationships.” The three of them shared the same bed at home, Owen and James also call Lauren “mother”.

 Buddy admitted it was difficult to explain the things to Owen and James, but the two brothers said he was happy after figure out the situation. Pictures from left to right are: Michael Owen, Ross, Lauren and Damian, buddy and James.20161105020456385

Their story is not means that every bisexual family should live like them. It means that we should believe in our family. If we all holding on together. All problems will be solved. We need to do is trust your family, and don’t forget your responsibilities.

As bisexual-Which presidential candidate would you vote for?

The American election has started, but this is not the presidential battle. More like two children in front of the other adults to discredit each other. We need the president must be a strong body is not strong. But the heart strong. This is achieved by powerful not to belittle others. But by self perfection. But our presidential candidate seems particularly keen to give each other to discredit it made me disappointed. I am a bisexual, I love my country, but I think I need more talented people to do my president.

 

u21765220594036073060fm21gp0 According to voice of America radio website reported on November 8th, in Times Square, can be seen everywhere and the United States presidential election related advertising, NBC also set the stage, a special program for making final preparations for the election day. A long history of presidential election campaign will end, the public mood? Blaine said: “I know there is a major event to happen, I do not know is a good thing or a bad thing, but I know it will be crazy.”

 

Blaine said he would vote, but he hasn’t yet decided who to vote for. He said he would go home to do some reading and research, and make a decision before going to the polls.

 

New York resident John has not decided, he felt that the two candidates are not ideal, but must choose a. He said: “I tend to support Trump now, I hope to see a business control America, if he don’t speak out I would feel more comfortable, I agree with the ideas of Trump, but also do not agree with his other views, I don’t trust Hilary, that’s for sure.”

 

下载.jpgMr. Kim, who works in New York, has questioned Mr. Trump’s immigration policy. He said: “I think the two are not very good, personally feel that the election is not a good choice, especially Trump some of his immigration policy is very bad for us, I was not inclined to him.”

 

Shane has voted, but he seems to be reluctant investment. He said: “I don’t think there’s any good candidate. Have no choice.” Shane said the election night will not participate in any election party, because he was frustrated in this election.

 

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Don’t Choose TO be bisexual!

One of the major misconceptions about bisexuality is that this group of people who are attracted to both men and women is confused about their sexual orientation. It can be misunderstood by both straight and surprisingly homosexual people as most believe that one is either one or the other – you can’t be both. Well, in essence, bisexuals are neither straight nor gay, they simply are attracted to both sexes.

Bisexuality is considered a “fluid” form of sexuality; which means they are more apt to be open to a relationship with either sex. This doesn’t mean they will swing back and forth between them – they are just not opposed to the idea of it. The fact is that most bisexuals tend to lean toward one or the other; they will either prefer straight relationships or gay ones. The degree they are attracted to same sex partners varies with the individual.
Bisexuality is Not a Passing Phase

eagexs7rvlg6k2d8lhlmzhtrxdhiybopkbkj0nsl5fnvdg11flb4fa One myth that both most people have toward bisexuals is that it is only a passing phase and most people will grow out of it. However, like heterosexual and homosexual people, bisexuals experience attractions that are not possible to control or change according to research studies. Bisexuals feel that if they are emotionally and physically drawn to a person of the same sex, this attraction should take precedence over their gender be it, male or female.

Bisexuals are Promiscuous
A common belief amongst the general public is that bisexually is promiscuous; this is usually not the case at all. The fact that bisexuals are drawn to both sexes doesn’t make the meeting, dating and relationship process any easier. They are about as likely to have multiple partners as any heterosexual or homosexual is.

Same Sex Activity Doesn’t Make One Bisexual
Another myth about bisexual is that they engage in sexual activity involving both sexes; this is not the case at all. Just because a person engages in sexual relations with both sexes at any given time will not make them bisexual. Bisexuality comes into play only when the person is not only physically but also emotionally attracted to the another person and has a chance to develop into a relationship.

Bisexuals Have to Choose
That goes along with the idea that bisexuals have to choose to be either straight or gay. However, the fact is that they can’t choose to be one or the other anymore than a gay person can decide to be straight. This doesn’t mean they can have a relationship and a lover on the side; it just means if they date guys, they may still like girls. It isn’t something they can just get over or turn off at will.

Bisexuals are in “transition.” On the way to being gay.
Most people who are bisexual are set in, and comfortable with their sexual orientation. There have been a small number of gay and lesbian people who have come out as bisexual because the stigma of being homosexual. It offends bisexuals because it helps to maintain this myth.

Hopefully, this article has managed to educate and help you learn about the bisexuals who are often misinterpreted.

The different between bisexual and homosexual.

Standard hetero society has been figuring out how to acknowledge, or if nothing else is getting use to the perceivability of gay and lesbian individuals in the course of the most recent quite a while. With more states legitimizing gay marriage like Oregon and Pennsylvania and the upsetting of DOMA, the Defense of Marriage Act, which characterizes marriage as a union between one man and one lady, gay and lesbians have been gaining ground toward equivalent rights. Films and Television have highlighted more gay and lesbian characters and more famous people have exposed the unadulterated truth like The Big Bang Theory’s Jim Parsons and motion picture star Ellen Page. Yet, with this introduction swinger individuals have been forgotten.
16 - 1 (4).jpgThere has been bi-fear in the hetero group, as well as in the gay and lesbian group. That is presumably in light of the fact that the gay and lesbian group, much the same as the hetero group, doesn’t know much about, or comprehend bisexuals. There are numerous myths about bisexuals that should be illuminated with the goal that they are more caught on.

Myth #1 Bisexuals are confounded about their sexuality.

Bisexuals are not confounded about their sexuality. They simply happen to be pulled in to both men and ladies. Numerous youngsters are confounded about their sexuality as a rule generally as a result of the societal weights to be hetero. As youngsters make sense of their identity they will know instinctually their identity pulled in to.

Myth #2 To be promiscuous you need to love both sexes similarly.

While bisexuals are pulled in to both men and ladies, they are not really pulled in to both sexual orientations similarly. It’s practically similar to a rate, with half/half being a man pulled in to both men and ladies similarly.

Myth #3 Being indiscriminate means having a male and female sweetheart in the meantime.

While indiscriminate individuals might be with both men and ladies over their dating vocation most bisexuals don’t feel like they should be with both sexes in the meantime to feel satisfied.

Myth #4 Bisexual individuals are wanton.

Bisexuals are generally as prone to be wanton as hetero-or gay person individuals. Their sexual introduction has nothing to do with their sexual way of life. Bisexuals are pretty much as prone to be monogamous as any other individual too.

Myth #5 Bisexuals are “on the move.” On the best approach to being gay.

A great many people who are promiscuous are set in, and alright with their sexual introduction. There have been a little number of gay and lesbian individuals who have turned out as swinger on the grounds that the disgrace of being gay person. This annoys bisexuals since it keeps up this myth.

Myth #6 Bisexual People have more benefit than gay and lesbian individuals.

This myth is both valid and untrue relying upon the situation. At the point when an androgynous individual is with, and particularly wedded to, a man of an alternate sex they will get the advantages of hetero benefit, however when a promiscuous individual is with a man of a similar sex they won’t.

Does Bisexual need nice date?

For a lot of bisexuals taking the initial step to acquire began with bisexual dating is one thing that might be a hassle to a lot of. They dream of it, but do not dare to anything about this for one reason or even the other.

For most of us bisexual dating stays inside the fantasy world without needing to be completed inside the actual existence, for one reason or maybe the other.

Numerous occasions for the reason that we fear so a lot what individuals may believe about us, whenever we begin to live and fulfill our greatest sexual dreams, in other cases it is only since it is ok just to be like a fantasy.

260111-blackangelAnd in other cases for the reason that we cannot execute our bisexual dreams, simply because they world in some way are not ready for them.

In the event you are bi-curious or bisexual in a few type of degree, you have most likely thought things via and determined by your self if this describes an illusion factor or whether or not it is some thing you need to exist in the actual existence and begin meeting other people.

For those who have made a decision that bisexual dating is one factor for you to do, the next factor is to learn how to get began by using it.

There are a lot of online dating site available on the internet today, most of them a for individuals that are into regular dating, so your success rate with those websites will probably be rather limited simply because they are more mainstream.

What you should take a look at, are bisexual dating sites, where other bisexuals are looking for much like you are. By performing that you will turn out to be much more effective together with your dating, be it couples, males or ladies you are into.

To begin with here you do not need to determine what individuals are into, they all are either bisexuals or bi-curious to assist you go straight to the stage and start the interacting and dating component.

With bisexual dating sites there are lots of ways you are able to make new friends first of all you will find the life chat and forum parts, if that’s not sufficient for you there’s a video section also, where you are able to watch the other members videos and have a great deal of hours ahead of you.16-1-7

If you choose you’ll need associated with a bisexual dating site, it’s essential that you are completely honest to yourself nevertheless the others, by doing this everyone might have a positive expertise that will disseminate utilizing the entire dating website. Then whenever you join, it is necessary which you merely write good quality honest positive stuff with regards to you, some thing people discover fascinating to see, so they would like to become buddies along with you.

You might also upload a couple of pictures if you would like, which will enhance your view rate considerably and sooner prior to you decide to know you will be on the way on actual bisexual dating.

Bisexual should dominate the life!

We often talk about that I feel so tired and I have no time to do something. It seems that we are use to say those words. Now, let’s stop doing anything and think about what happened to us.

No matter who you are? Bisexual, homosexual & straight have the same life. We all grow up from a child. What we heard the most is the words: “why you don’t do that yet?”; “you should do something”; “forget your dream and finish the work”. It just like we should live as the world requires us to be. The whole world likes an ant’s nest and everyone is a worker ant. Do what you should do and you will be fine. Otherwise you will be labeled as intractably and rebelliously. It’s means you are a bad girl & boy.

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But only you know who you are, what you really like. You just have a little different from others. You want your life become exciting and miraculous. But life is fighting against between the traditional and nontraditional. I think it’s the reason why social keeps progressing.

Down the ages, there are many cultures to be born. Why the children’s fairy stories and novels are come down? Because the intractably and rebelliously come out at every ages. They describe their dreams in the stories and novels. Even hundreds year past those dreams didn’t disappear. Opposite, they become the guide of our life.

But what story will popular in the future? It must be our stories. It’s time to say goodbye to the words: ”you should”. It’s time to looking for the dream that “I should” to create. To be a bisexual, there is no experience for us to learn about. Maybe you cannot find another bisexual when you realized that you are a bisexual too. Fears, worries around you but only have no help.

You ask yourselves that what I should do. There is no answer, everyone have different life. If there is no answer, we create it. You are the god in your world. You are the only one that could dominate your life. No repeat, no compromise and chase what you really like. If you are a bisexual-woman, chase your girls. If you are a bisexual-man, chase your boys. If you like both boy and girl, have nice date with them. If you don’t know how to find them? Go to the community Onlybidating.com for free chat. Many local bisexuals are waiting for you there. If you know where to go, the whole world will make way for you. You just need to learn one thing this life. That is how to dominate your life.

Shout out or keep silence? – I’m bisexual!

People always can find out some new topics to talk about everyday. We hear the discussion on news, bus or in a coffee shop. Most of the discussions have nothing to do with us. For the most part of people talk about are gossip news and little nothings of life. But have you ever heard some discussion about special topic. For example, did you ever hear some one talking about bisexual?

Maybe you have ever heard that someone is talking about the superman. You don’t care about that. Because that the superman have nothing to do with you. It’s quite nature that people will not notice things have nothing to do with them. This is not inhospitality. The life is transitoriness just like snow, we don’t have redundant time to notice all the things happened around us. Like the hero only could take care of the people nearby in movies, much less for the normal people.

11899996_1085209348163602_3555969661779713398_nSometimes you can hear that someone talking about bisexual. They criticize the bisexual and enumerate the shortcoming of bisexual in public. What do you think about at the same time? Put a bold face on it and go on to drink your tee or retort them by tough words. No matter which way you choose to face the situation, the thing is connection to you. Because that you don’t ignore it as worthless information. You are thinking about how to face it. It takes your time. This is the most difference between things you concerned or not.

So let’s talk about your choice, shout out or keep silence? Yeah, in fact it’s difficult to give the right answer. No matter which one you choose you cannot solve the problem perfect. If you shout out to the people talking about bisexual, you will quarrel with each other. And no problems have been solved. If you keep silence, it’s feeling unwell to your heart. We know that everything can not break away from the fate, talked about by people. It’s not only a bad thing but also it’s good for bisexual. People talk about the bisexual means that they are taking care of it. They are spending time to think about bisexual. No one is perfect, the same to bisexual. Some people talk about the bad thing and some people talk about the good thing. So if you are a bisexual, neither to shout out them nor keep silence. You can join their discussion as a bisexual. Understand what they are thinking about so that you can retort them. Listening is more important than talking.

Take no notice of the useless information. Your time is valuable. Spend it on enjoy life, and looking for your happiness. Who can call into question your life when everyone admires it? Live as a happiness people, live as a happiness bisexual!