I fall in love with a bisexual woman who has died for 300 years.

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Today I read a story about a bisexual woman Julie d’Aubigny (Title&stage name Mademoiselle Maupin). A famous singer, swordswoman, transvestism, bisexuality. She has an excellent life more than the story in novel.

Julie d’Abbigny was born in 1673 to Gaston d’Aubigny. She learned dancing, reading, drawing, and fencing and dressed as a boy from an early age. Singing and fencing is her favorite things and she is good at them. By the age of fourteen, she became a mistress of the Count d’Armagnac who had her married to Sieur de Maupin of Saint-Germain-en-Laye for one year.

In 1688, Madame de Maupin became involved with an assistant fencing master named Sérannes. When Lieutenant-General of Police tried to apprehend Sérannes for killing a man in an illegal duel, the pair fled the city to Marseille. To surviving, they have to perform singing and fencing on the way.

For convenience, Julie dressed as man. However, she never cover that she is a woman indeed. She meet a woman who is a daughter of a merchant prince in 1690, when she is showing in Marseille opera house. They begin the woman’s love with vigour and vitality. To obstructing their connection, the girl’s folk’s send her to the convent. When the girl’s parents put her away in the Visitandines convent in Avignon, Julie followed. In order to get her lover back, stole the body of a dead nun, placed it in her lover’s bed and set the room on fire so that they could escape together. But the plan didn’t work. They were captured at a farm village nearby and Julie killed one police and serious injury two polices.

Finally, Julie succeeded in breaking prison and fled to Paris. Soon after, she became very famous with her excellent voice, brilliant performance, wear men’s clothing and date with both woman and man. At a masked ball in 1695, Julie burst in and wearing man’s clothes with sword hung over her waist. She courted to the most beautiful girl in the masked ball.

After that Julie start a journey to Belgium, Spain and so on. She came back to Paris at 1698 and became chief actress of Paris Opera. She fall in love with Florensac marquise in the last years of life. In 1705, marquise pass away due to the sudden disease. Julie is very sad and say goodbye to the stage. Finally, Julie died in convent at 37 years old.

What a wonderful life of a bisexual woman it is. I almost cannot believe what she did in that age. She is fighting all the time for her life. She is a great woman, a great bisexual woman. I have to say that she has won my heart. I have fall in love with her even if she died for 300 years.

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What will you do when you doubt that you are gay?

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Simon isn’t gay, but he spend hours every day to worry about whether he is gay.

Since he worry about he is gay, he will avoid to get in touch with other male when he is working. He even won’t stay with another male alone. He avoid to join sports activities with his son. So that he will not get in touch with son’s coaches and other daddies.

Simon suffers from HOCD (Compulsive sexual orientation). People who suffers from HOCD is afraid to be gay or treated as gay. Sometimes this illness is confused with Homophobia. In this condition, someone is actually gay, lesbian or bisexual, but their sexual orientation make them worrying. The people who suffers from HOCD will always obsessive themselves to understand they are not gay. In fact, they are not gay indeed.

Should you be afraid to be gay? Of cause not. If you are gay identified, don’t worry about it. It’s not a terrible thing. Many gays live a happiness life. Gay’s live environment has a big improved with time goes on. More and more people is willing to accept gay, lesbian and bisexual and support them. There are many bisexual, gay and lesbian communities were built.

You don’t have to date with gay to identify yourself. If you doubt that you are gay, you can try to find out which gender can attract you. The male or female. It’s the easiest way. Please don’t date with gay by using bisexual tag. It may heart your partner. Cheat is unforgiven in a serious relationship. It is ok, if both you just want have some fun.

What the most crazy and stupid things you have done as a mature lesbian?

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We all did many stupid and crazy things with our friends or partner in the past. I still remember the most stupid thing I have done with my partner. We are lesbian couple. There are many funny things happen every day. I drew a picture on her face while she was sleeping. She took away the toilet paper before I went to washroom, then I sit in washroom for 2 hours. But it isn’t the end. To surprise her, I put back her watch, so that she was late to a party and dancing in front of everyone as punishment.

Although we try to make trouble to each other every day. But we know that it is not childish and bored. On the contrary, it’s love. We get a lot of fun when we’re making trouble for each other. Our life become more active. And we could know more about each other. I cannot say if it’s good to be a lesbian, but met her is really a lucky thing.

Of cause, our life is not composed of kinds of mischief. It’s just a condiment of life and bring us many funs to withstand the troubles. Every morning she will cook breakfast for me. She love black tea very much and I will make tea for her every day. I have a terrible memory. She always take the sun cream, umbrella, home key while traveling. We are not only the partner of each other but also the friend, folk. We play ourselves roles very good. I think you must watch the movie “Leon”. The killer Leon meet sweet girl Mathilda. They looks like a couple but not the real couple. They accompany each other, take care of each other. I like this kind of feeling. Cold heart could be thawed by warm love.

I love my partner, we cannot have sex like straight couple. We didn’t come out like others gay couples. We come from different cities but live together now. We are lovely, mature girl. We also are tiny lesbian couple in the million population city. Not too many people could notice us. We live in our own little world and enjoy the normal life. At the same time, we have our own friend circle. She joined a lesbian community and I joined a bisexual & lesbian community. We chat with other lesbian and bisexual there and talk about the LGBT topics. We meet many friends and try to help other lesbian fish. Many lesbian, gay, bisexual are looking for partner or date. Wish you all good luck.

Don’t sell yourself short – Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian!

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Every time I heard people talk about Bisexuality, Gay, Lesbian and the main keywords are “Suicide”, ”Self-imposed isolation”, “Self-abasement”, “Unhappy”. It is make me very sad. Every time I heard people talk about Bisexuality, Gay, Lesbian and the main keywords are “Suicide”, ”Self-imposed isolation”, “Self-abasement”, “Unhappy”. It is make me very sad.
I have heard many Gay, Bisexual, Lesbian talk about their experience. They always like to begin with this sentence “At first, I feel very terrible, and I stay and home for X months. I even try to suicide…” It seems to be a tradition that every Bisexuality, Gay, Lesbian must have a sad past. But does it actually right?
At first, we should learn that why so many people think that to be a LGBT is an unhappy thing? For the moment, LGBT people have an embarrassing status in social. On the one hand government have past the laws that LGBT’s marriage is legal, but on the other hand a part of people cannot accept this reality psychologically within a short time. As a result LGBT were suffered varying degrees of discrimination and reject.
This is true, we cannot escape it. But this is one side of current situation. We cannot cover our eyes with our hands in by day and say it is night. In fact, many communities and groups are helping Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian fish to identify themselves and enjoy the colorful life. All the confusions are always temporary. As a bisexual, gay, lesbian fish what you should do at first isn’t coming out, but learn about the current status of the groups.
When you have learned about LGBT you will know that it’s not terrible to be a bisexual, gay, lesbian.

1. You are not alone. There are many LGBT people around the world.

2. It’s a normal thing. Don’t feel pressured. Everyone should come out in their own time. Whether to coming out depend on if you are ready.

3. Label yourself is not necessary. Love depend on the feeling but not the same label.

4. Learn about how other bisexual, gay, lesbian come out is very helpful. Try your best to avoid some unnecessary trouble.

5. Tell someone. Whether you prepare to coming out, it is good idea to relieve the pressure. Relaxed brain could help you make right decisions.
It’s like accepting that the earth is round. Someday people will accept bisexual, gay, lesbian. What we need to do is life a happy life. Looking for bisexual fun, have a gay relationship, date with a lesbian; do anything you want when you are ready. The worst decision is hiding yourself and tasting the sadness.