Don’t become a lonely bisexuality.

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Does someone stay with you while you stay awake?
Does someone will comfort you while you are grieved?
Does someone could learn about you while you want someone to talk with?
Don’t wait to be lonely, to recognize the value of a bisexual partner.

I and my friends come to the age which suddenly become lonely and feel no one to talk about late at night. I’m bisexual and I prefer male. My friends include gay, lesbian, bisexual and straight. All of us feel that there are less and less friends to get together. Most of us spend our time one the computer and phone.

Have you ever waiting for someone many years? It has nothing to do with gender and sexual orientation. There is a people living in everyone’s heart which one we are looking for. Some lucky guys find him/her very early in their life. But they are not learn how to value the best love. If you miss it, you almost lose it forever, since no one could take the place of him/her. This is the reason why some love stories make you shed tears.

We often says that living in the moment. Therefore I object waiting, I prefer active to do something. I want to find a bisexual partner. I want to try 3some dating. I want to date with hot bisexual woman. All these things won’t appear out of nowhere. I have tried to looking for hot woman on dating app. I have tried to match bisexual partner on bisexual dating site.

Although you may failure to find a right people. But since the day I came out I knew that I must hold chances in my hand. I fear nothing since I have to protect the one thing I can’t live without. I don’t want to be a lonely bisexual.

 

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Whether gay couple should get married?

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Obviously, this question cannot be discussed in those countries which don’t acknowledge gay’s marriage. But we often get “No” answer from countries which open gay’s marriage. If you are gay, have you ever think about the question – Why we need to get married?

Different from straight marriage, gay’s marriage open from the modern era. Many gay couples choose not get married. Not all of gay couples are not willing to get married. They just not sure is it worth to do. Get married become very easy now. You just need a piece of paper and post your photos on it, then you got married. It looks like so easy, but will you believe a piece of paper, even it receive legal protection. Of cause not. What receive legal protection is the relationship, but not your love. But sometimes gay couples don’t know how to protect the tender relationship.

There are many straight couples around us. You could see them at bus station, at super market, on the street, almost anywhere. Have you saw many gay couples around you? For most of gay couples, there is few experience of marriage for them. No one knows whether it is a good choice. This situation lead that we can hardly learn about gay’s marriage. Even the gay guys could hardly learn about it.

There are two ways for him to learn about gay’s marriage. The one is join some gay dating sites. They could chat many gay friends there and learn about gay relationship. Or looking for a good guy to dating and experience the true gay love. The other way is join some gay parties or clubs. If you want learn about someone, you need to join his life. Observer could never make the right choice. Only the real experience is credible.

It is easy to understand why gay people don’t like to get marriage in the situation above. There is another serious problem. If homosexual choose to build a family, should they bring up children? I think it is not absolute. It is depend on the willing of gay couple. Some people support the view that gay couldn’t bring up children. Their argument is gay parents’ sexual orientation will have a bad influence to the children. But I think it’s absurd. According to the theory, killer’s children should be killer; liars’ children should be liar; robbers’ children should be robber. Answer my question with your common senses, does it right? We use love and outlook on life but not sexual orientation to teach children. Everyone have themselves sexual orientation, it couldn’t be changed. The only difference between gay’s children and straight’s children is gay’s children have a good acceptability to gay. It have been proved by many researcher.

As a gay please remember that no matter what choice you did, please make sure you are free and you are willing to do it.

I fall in love with a bisexual woman who has died for 300 years.

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Today I read a story about a bisexual woman Julie d’Aubigny (Title&stage name Mademoiselle Maupin). A famous singer, swordswoman, transvestism, bisexuality. She has an excellent life more than the story in novel.

Julie d’Abbigny was born in 1673 to Gaston d’Aubigny. She learned dancing, reading, drawing, and fencing and dressed as a boy from an early age. Singing and fencing is her favorite things and she is good at them. By the age of fourteen, she became a mistress of the Count d’Armagnac who had her married to Sieur de Maupin of Saint-Germain-en-Laye for one year.

In 1688, Madame de Maupin became involved with an assistant fencing master named Sérannes. When Lieutenant-General of Police tried to apprehend Sérannes for killing a man in an illegal duel, the pair fled the city to Marseille. To surviving, they have to perform singing and fencing on the way.

For convenience, Julie dressed as man. However, she never cover that she is a woman indeed. She meet a woman who is a daughter of a merchant prince in 1690, when she is showing in Marseille opera house. They begin the woman’s love with vigour and vitality. To obstructing their connection, the girl’s folk’s send her to the convent. When the girl’s parents put her away in the Visitandines convent in Avignon, Julie followed. In order to get her lover back, stole the body of a dead nun, placed it in her lover’s bed and set the room on fire so that they could escape together. But the plan didn’t work. They were captured at a farm village nearby and Julie killed one police and serious injury two polices.

Finally, Julie succeeded in breaking prison and fled to Paris. Soon after, she became very famous with her excellent voice, brilliant performance, wear men’s clothing and date with both woman and man. At a masked ball in 1695, Julie burst in and wearing man’s clothes with sword hung over her waist. She courted to the most beautiful girl in the masked ball.

After that Julie start a journey to Belgium, Spain and so on. She came back to Paris at 1698 and became chief actress of Paris Opera. She fall in love with Florensac marquise in the last years of life. In 1705, marquise pass away due to the sudden disease. Julie is very sad and say goodbye to the stage. Finally, Julie died in convent at 37 years old.

What a wonderful life of a bisexual woman it is. I almost cannot believe what she did in that age. She is fighting all the time for her life. She is a great woman, a great bisexual woman. I have to say that she has won my heart. I have fall in love with her even if she died for 300 years.

I’m a gay, but I really want be a girl!

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I’m a gay, but I really want be a girl. I want show my love to partner in public. I want kiss him, I want hug him. But others always look at us with strange eyes. I cannot turn a blind eye to it. I cannot live like other gays. I’m uncomfortable about it.

I wish my love could get blessing from all my friends and folks. But my parents don’t like my partner. They look at us just like we are stranger. Our friends often make fun of us. I know that they are unintentional. But they have hurt me actually.

I receive many requests from gay community. Because I often join some gay parties and have fun in gay club. I don’t want join any community because I just want live my life. I want play with other gays but not join a group of community. Are you must join a clan if you like play game? Of cause not. I’m a small potato and don’t want show something to others. The main wish is find a man who could love me forever, like the story in the book. He don’t need to be the rich and handsome. But he must be a kind man. We could traveling together. Play all the items in amusement park like all couples.

I want be a girl, so that we don’t need to come out. I want be a girl, so that our marriage could get blessing from all of our friends and folks. I want be a girl, so that we won’t hear others say “They are gay”. Instead, they will say “They looks like so happiness”. I want be a girl, so that I can easy to find a man to date. But now I could only find friends in the gay clubs or some gay dating sites. I want be a girl, so that I could have our own babies.

But now I am a gay, they said “If you shed tears then you miss the sun, you also miss the stars”. From now on to be a happy gay. Caring about everyone who love me. It must be true love, if your partner could get nothing but love from you.

I’m a gay, but I want be a girl! Am I wrong?

What will you do when you doubt that you are gay?

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Simon isn’t gay, but he spend hours every day to worry about whether he is gay.

Since he worry about he is gay, he will avoid to get in touch with other male when he is working. He even won’t stay with another male alone. He avoid to join sports activities with his son. So that he will not get in touch with son’s coaches and other daddies.

Simon suffers from HOCD (Compulsive sexual orientation). People who suffers from HOCD is afraid to be gay or treated as gay. Sometimes this illness is confused with Homophobia. In this condition, someone is actually gay, lesbian or bisexual, but their sexual orientation make them worrying. The people who suffers from HOCD will always obsessive themselves to understand they are not gay. In fact, they are not gay indeed.

Should you be afraid to be gay? Of cause not. If you are gay identified, don’t worry about it. It’s not a terrible thing. Many gays live a happiness life. Gay’s live environment has a big improved with time goes on. More and more people is willing to accept gay, lesbian and bisexual and support them. There are many bisexual, gay and lesbian communities were built.

You don’t have to date with gay to identify yourself. If you doubt that you are gay, you can try to find out which gender can attract you. The male or female. It’s the easiest way. Please don’t date with gay by using bisexual tag. It may heart your partner. Cheat is unforgiven in a serious relationship. It is ok, if both you just want have some fun.

Hesitation is a killer for gay’s love.

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Gay’s love is disapproved by many people indeed. But beyond all question it’s one kind of true love. Just few people could enjoy it. You don’t like eat cake, but you don’t have right to stop others eat it. Straight have the right to looking for love, also gay, bisexual, lesbian have the right. This is so called equality.

If you are luckily to be a gay, I think you must have doubt whether equality really exist. Please forgive my words are straightway. I have to say it is objective fact. “Coming out” is like you are the first people who wear bikini and walk on the street. All people’s eyes are on you. But it couldn’t encourage you, opposite it make you feel fear. It seems hide yourself is the best way to avoid it. Did you successful?

Proof by fact, brave people always try to do some things looks like impossible and always successful. It’s not because they have a good luck. It’s because they know what is important. What is the most happiness thing for a gay? Could you answer my question?

A good partner? Nice job? I don’t think these are right answers. Do you know that you will be a pioneer for the gay that hundreds of years later? What you need is brave heart. I’m not mean you must come out right now. I think many articles have talked about how a gay come out. You don’t have to do it. Just don’t hesitate when you meet another gay you really love.

If you have come out as gay, bisexual, lesbian, remember all counsels and forget all sneers. You are just a strange gay in the eyes of those who laugh at you. But you are everything in the eyes of who love you. Will you stop to find a true gay partner because of these stranger’s behavior? Don’t hesitate, just do it. Because nothing can change it – you are gay.

What the most crazy and stupid things you have done as a mature lesbian?

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We all did many stupid and crazy things with our friends or partner in the past. I still remember the most stupid thing I have done with my partner. We are lesbian couple. There are many funny things happen every day. I drew a picture on her face while she was sleeping. She took away the toilet paper before I went to washroom, then I sit in washroom for 2 hours. But it isn’t the end. To surprise her, I put back her watch, so that she was late to a party and dancing in front of everyone as punishment.

Although we try to make trouble to each other every day. But we know that it is not childish and bored. On the contrary, it’s love. We get a lot of fun when we’re making trouble for each other. Our life become more active. And we could know more about each other. I cannot say if it’s good to be a lesbian, but met her is really a lucky thing.

Of cause, our life is not composed of kinds of mischief. It’s just a condiment of life and bring us many funs to withstand the troubles. Every morning she will cook breakfast for me. She love black tea very much and I will make tea for her every day. I have a terrible memory. She always take the sun cream, umbrella, home key while traveling. We are not only the partner of each other but also the friend, folk. We play ourselves roles very good. I think you must watch the movie “Leon”. The killer Leon meet sweet girl Mathilda. They looks like a couple but not the real couple. They accompany each other, take care of each other. I like this kind of feeling. Cold heart could be thawed by warm love.

I love my partner, we cannot have sex like straight couple. We didn’t come out like others gay couples. We come from different cities but live together now. We are lovely, mature girl. We also are tiny lesbian couple in the million population city. Not too many people could notice us. We live in our own little world and enjoy the normal life. At the same time, we have our own friend circle. She joined a lesbian community and I joined a bisexual & lesbian community. We chat with other lesbian and bisexual there and talk about the LGBT topics. We meet many friends and try to help other lesbian fish. Many lesbian, gay, bisexual are looking for partner or date. Wish you all good luck.