Don’t wait to be lonely, to recognize the value of a partner. I love you my friends.
Obviously, this question cannot be discussed in those countries which don’t acknowledge gay’s marriage. But we often get “No” answer from countries which open gay’s marriage. If you are gay, have you ever think about the question – Why we need to get married?
Different from straight marriage, gay’s marriage open from the modern era. Many gay couples choose not get married. Not all of gay couples are not willing to get married. They just not sure is it worth to do. Get married become very easy now. You just need a piece of paper and post your photos on it, then you got married. It looks like so easy, but will you believe a piece of paper, even it receive legal protection. Of cause not. What receive legal protection is the relationship, but not your love. But sometimes gay couples don’t know how to protect the tender relationship.
There are many straight couples around us. You could see them at bus station, at super market, on the street, almost anywhere. Have you saw many gay couples around you? For most of gay couples, there is few experience of marriage for them. No one knows whether it is a good choice. This situation lead that we can hardly learn about gay’s marriage. Even the gay guys could hardly learn about it.
There are two ways for him to learn about gay’s marriage. The one is join some gay dating sites. They could chat many gay friends there and learn about gay relationship. Or looking for a good guy to dating and experience the true gay love. The other way is join some gay parties or clubs. If you want learn about someone, you need to join his life. Observer could never make the right choice. Only the real experience is credible.
It is easy to understand why gay people don’t like to get marriage in the situation above. There is another serious problem. If homosexual choose to build a family, should they bring up children? I think it is not absolute. It is depend on the willing of gay couple. Some people support the view that gay couldn’t bring up children. Their argument is gay parents’ sexual orientation will have a bad influence to the children. But I think it’s absurd. According to the theory, killer’s children should be killer; liars’ children should be liar; robbers’ children should be robber. Answer my question with your common senses, does it right? We use love and outlook on life but not sexual orientation to teach children. Everyone have themselves sexual orientation, it couldn’t be changed. The only difference between gay’s children and straight’s children is gay’s children have a good acceptability to gay. It have been proved by many researcher.
As a gay please remember that no matter what choice you did, please make sure you are free and you are willing to do it.
I never thought that I will have such a bisexual girlfriend.
Her name is Angela. My name is Bam. I’m about 5’9’’. I like play basketball, and the first time I met her is at a public basketball court. She has wheat skin, long hair and very beautiful. That day, I’m playing basketball with my fellows. She came over and said that she want join us. We all laugh at her at first but we realize this is a mistake. She beaten all of us after half an hour.
After that, we know each other. In our eyes, she is actually a lesbian. Because there is another beautiful girl follow her every moment. They looks like very intimacy. Sometimes they kiss in front of us. Oh, come on I really want become that girl.
She disappeared for 3 months after we built friend relationship. Nobody know what she worked for that period of time. But everything changed when she appear again. The same wheat skin but hair had cut. I have to say, it make her more charming.
“Be my boyfriend” this is the first dialogue she talked to me when we met again. What! It’s like a bomb exploding in my head. I can hardly believe this. “But do you know, I’m not a lesbian, actually I’m a bisexual” her words just is like to remind me that surprise is not finish. “Tonight we have a party, do you want join” she whispered in my ear. Of cause, I……. will come. Heard my words, she put one pieces of paper into my pocket. It’s her phone number.
When I arrived the place we appointed, I’m stunned. Oh, my god, a private villa. Soon, I know it’s not a joke. Because she meet me at the gate and wearing only bikini. I feel extremely flattered and awkward. She is swimming in her pool before I come. Her house is very big, but only three people here. Her girlfriend and me are the only two people been invited. After dinner Angela take me to her private pool. Then Angela and her girlfriend take off all the clothes and look at me. I’m really an idiot if I don’t know what will happen. A real threesome, I only experienced it in my dream.
The next morning they tell me everything. They are very rich woman and they are bisexual. They meet each other in the college. And want find a man to join them. So they find me. I feel very lucky. This should be the story in a movie. But it’s happen to me. After that, we live together. My life become difference from now on.
I’m a bisexual boy, but I never told anyone else. Until I graduated from senior high school, no one knows my secret. I’m very diffidence and have few friends. So, I have no girlfriend in past years.
I have a plan to my future. To be the “S-Bisexual”, it means “straight-bisexual”. I will not come out in the future. I may have a girlfriend after graduating from university. Then we will get married and have several babies. I think I can be loyal to my partner.
But everything have changed at the second weeks of the vacation. All my friends (in fact only two) invite me to join a party. It is said only under 20 year old youth could join. The address is the park at the east of our small town. I can drive there in 20 minutes. Maybe I should release myself at this time, I think so. And I promised my friends I will arrived there on time.
It’s really a big party. Almost 40 guys there when I arrived. I am familiar with half of them. Because they are my schoolmate. I greet them and look around the same time. A girl catch my attention. She is about 5’7’’. Really a hot girl and she is looking at me that time. Suddenly my heart beat very fast, “I must date with her” the thought filled up my mind. The party will last to tomorrow morning, I have many chances to talk to her.
Time: 1:15 AM.
Place: at some corner of the park.
Finally, I kiss her lips. “I’m a lesbian” she said. “I’m….” I want to respond some words, but I cannot say a word. I just look at her, I know she must have something to say. “I have a girlfriend, she is not a lesbian but a bisexual. She said that love you for a long time. I don’t want lose her, so I want to try if I could date with you. Do you want a threesome?” Her words is just like a bomb explode in my mind. At the moment I know our story are just begin.
If you meet a bisexual/gay/lesbian luckily and he/she is very enthusiasm, please don’t lie to him/her. Because they didn’t get hurt from the world before. I think you would not like to be the first one to hurt them. The reason why I make the conclusion is less people could keep enthusiasm to others, if he/she ever have been hurt. Do you agree with me?
LGBT happened to be the groups are easier get hurt. Why? Please listen to me.
If you ever have met bisexual/gay/lesbian, you may know the plight of LGBT groups more or less. Obviously, it couldn’t be very good. I’m thinking about why so many people said that bisexual are promiscuous. The viewpoint must be wrong even if without proving. We couldn’t depend on few rumors to judge a group is good or not. We have given LGBT groups lots of hurt, please stop hurting them by your words.
Gay and lesbian usually loyal to a relationship. They just like lonely cheetah walking in boundless prairie. Waiting for partner appears at any moment. You may want to contradict me that there are many gay and lesbian communities for gay and lesbian to meet a relationship. But how do you know what they encountered is not an accident. True love is the most mysterious thing in the world. Few lucky guys can get it. Every times when you meet a stranger is a chance to get true love. How do you control yourself don’t chase it? This is the reason why gay/lesbian all most enthusiasm to every relationship.
Have you ever thought that you or your family members are bisexual, gay? My answer is no, I didn’t think about this. But it was happened in my life. My sister is lesbian.
I’m straight, but I don’t reject bisexual or gay/lesbian at all. I knew she is lesbian since 3 years ago. I love my sister very much and I want she can have a happiness life. But if she is a lesbian, it becomes harder.
At first, our parents could hardly to accept it. They all love her very much. Our parents don’t expect my sister have a rich life but just want she lives as a normal girl. But things go contrary to their wishes. She is born to special. We find it out years later. It do not affect that my sister become an excellent daughter. She love our parents very much and very optimistic. She always said to me “it’s nothing to be a lesbian”.
I saw her “girlfriends” several times. They are all nice girl, beautiful and smart. I am willing to stay with them. My sister call their love “Platonic Love”. She have a clear plan to her future. At first, graduate from university. Second, looking for a job to make some money. Third, live with her “girlfriends”. It sound very easy, does it?
My sister is lucky, because she meet few “girlfriends” at school. It saves her a lot of time to looking for another lesbian. They are coming from different places. They get together because they have the same dreams. I knew LGBT groups from my sister and I searched much information on internet. So I knew the situation of LGBT groups very much even if I’m not belong to LGBT. Many youths too impatient to wait to come out as bisexual or gay/lesbian. Because it sound very cool, I think so. Most of them could be called “Bi-curious, Gay/Lesbian-curious” my sister said. It’s doesn’t difficult to resolution it. They can hardly to keeps a relationship for a long time. Generally, they will finish a relationship in 1-3 months. It make people feel that bisexual, lesbian/gay are disloyal to a relationship.
There are a lot of lesbian/gay, bisexual people like my sister in the world. I don’t know how does my parents will deal with the problem? It is hardly to think about. But there is a rule between families; that is “Love can defeat anything”.