What a bisexual should be?

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Some bisexual will not come out as bisexual, they choose to live a special life. But they also keep a bisexual relationship with bisexual friends or partners. May this is one kind of life style. Your spirit of exploration will not touch your life and family, you also could get fun with bisexual.

I mention this to say you’re not alone. You’re not alone in being closeted, and when you decide to come out, there is a vibrant bisexual community waiting for you. You could try the things you interested in. Even something you never heard or imagined.

So for those of you struggling with coming out as bisexual, here’s my advice:

Don’t worry about your bisexual identity.

Your identity can and most likely will change over the course of your life. You’re no longer stuck with one label. I, for one, identify as bisexual, pansexual, and queer. I’ve met many women who identify as lesbian even though they date men. The power in labels is that they allow you to become a part of a community. So while labels are daunting, they’re not permanent. Don’t feel that you have to commit to anything forever.

Bisexual community is global and keep developing.

There is a bi community, and when you come out as bisexual, you will meet more bi people. When I was in college, I didn’t know a single bisexual man, but after graduating and coming out as bisexual, I met so many bi guys. We’re everywhere. You just don’t know it because most people assume that a man dating another man is gay, and a man dating a woman is straight. But just like you, they may indeed be bisexual.

Don’t feel that you must come out to do something.

When someone feel like to dating with you, they won’t care about you are straight, gay or bisexual. What they care about is “do you want dating with me”. If you are a bi-men but register as straight on a bisexual dating site. A young couple hookup with you “do you want a date with us, we are Bi”. You just need to say “Yes” or “No”. No matter what’s your identity, your choice won’t lie. This is the reason why you need free your spirit. In fact, people have a high acceptance to bisexual group. Threesome dating is not the exclusive to bisexual, many straight couple have experienced a threesome dating. Exploring threesome dating is full of fun. Also many couples try the swinger dating. If you have an open-minded, your life will become wonderful.

So say it like you mean it. Say it like you’re positive. Also, say it in a way that’s not a big deal. You don’t need to say, “I have something important I need to tell you.” You don’t have cancer. You don’t want people to treat you like you do have cancer. You just like multiple genders. The less of a deal you make it, the less of a deal it becomes.

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Threesome tips for woman.

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How to looking for threesome partners, you may have the doubt before having real threesome. Then, you can casually ask the person if they’ve ever had a threesome or would ever want to participate. If that goes well, then you can think about making a more direct ask. A simple, “Hey, you so cool. We want to have a threesome, do you want join. Is that something you’d be open to?” should do the trick. If you know the person, make it clear that you don’t want the friendship to change. If it’s a stranger or someone you connected with online, take some time to get to know each other first. Hang out to see if you’re attracted to the person and could trust them. But don’t worry too much about making the big ask. The person on the receiving end will be flattered, no matter what.

Keep in mind that whether it’s FFM or MMF is entirely up to you as an individual or as a couple, although FFM is more common because guys tend to be less open-minded about including another man. That being said, a woman should never cave in just because her partner is pushing his preference. It should never be a quid pro quo. You should want to do it.

You should plan to have more condoms on-hand than usual. “If the guy is penetrating both women, he’s going to have to take the condom off each time he goes back and forth between each partner,” otherwise he’s exposing the women to each other’s body fluids which could contain bacteria, infections, and viruses. Lube, sex toys, and toy cleansing wipes should also be on the nightstand for added sensation and wetness. And toys should be wiped down in between partners to keep from spreading germs.

Threesomes tend to last longer than traditional two-way nookie, so you may change things up quite a bit. Take the lead with your hands, guiding your partners into positions you want to try. Or pay attention to any subtle changes in your partners’ body language, breathing patterns, and sexual cues. Then, use motions to guide them however you like, not words.