How to looking for partners on threesome dating site? You may have the doubt before having real threesome. Then, you can casually ask the person if they’ve ever had a threesome or would ever want to participate. If that goes well, then you can think about making a more direct ask. A simple, “Hey, you so cool. We want to have a threesome, do you want join. Is that something you’d be open to?” should do the trick. If you know the person, make it clear that you don’t want the friendship to change. If it’s a stranger or someone you connected with online, take some time to get to know each other first. Hang out to see if you’re attracted to the person and could trust them. But don’t worry too much about making the big ask. The person on the receiving end will be flattered, no matter what.
Keep in mind that whether it’s FFM or MMF is entirely up to you as an individual or as a couple, although FFM is more common because guys tend to be less open-minded about including another man. That being said, a woman should never cave in just because her partner is pushing his preference. It should never be a quid pro quo. You should want to do it.
You should plan to have more condoms on-hand than usual. “If the guy is penetrating both women, he’s going to have to take the condom off each time he goes back and forth between each partner,” otherwise he’s exposing the women to each other’s body fluids which could contain bacteria, infections, and viruses. Lube, sex toys, and toy cleansing wipes should also be on the nightstand for added sensation and wetness. And toys should be wiped down in between partners to keep from spreading germs.
Threesomes tend to last longer than traditional two-way nookie, so you may change things up quite a bit. Take the lead with your hands, guiding your partners into positions you want to try. Or pay attention to any subtle changes in your partners’ body language, breathing patterns, and sexual cues. Then, use motions to guide them however you like, not words.